To this day we Americans' glamorize the Cowboys' macho image. Goodness sakes, when the horseless carriage became our travel mode replacing the horse, we just had to identify our motor vehicles' strength in terms of 'horse power.' And to this day, some cowboys driving their Ford Super Duty 475 HP Truck are compelled to attach a set of metal "balls" to the wagon-hitch-knob as a sentimental remembrance of "Old Paint," if not to suggests their own personal endowment.
White Europeans came to North America as uninvited immigrants. They immediately decided that the land of plenty (spacious and blessed with Natural Resources) must be theirs not that of these savages who spoke some foreign language. To accomplish this narcissistic manifest destiny, those white settlers cheated and slaughtered the 'dark skinned' indigenous Red Skin. people. Readers: Can I get an "Amen" for the formation of a Christian nation? Ah, come on! AMEN! The reality is the United States government authorized over 1,500 wars against Indians and consequently reduced the Native American population from approximately 7 million to 238,00. My fellow Americans that's called genocide, you know the killing off of a particular group of people. It's usually found in one of those "shithole' countries we don't like.
America's longing for the cowboy times is alive today. When the 21st century American cowboy protests, he shows up in public dressed in military fatigues armed with assault weapons much more than yesterdays six shooter. We observe the cowboy philosophy with 'some'of our law enforcement officers. The Sheriff's posse no longer lynches dark skinned people at the edge of town but they instead shoot them in the back as the 'black man' runs for his life or the cowboy hogties the victim and applies pressure force to the victim's neck killing the modern day 'savage.' Readers: "Liberty and Justice for All?" How about now? Can I get and "God Bless America?" And perhaps a "God Forgive Us?"
Funny how we white folks enbrace and cheer our black athletic heroes who win Olympic Gold, score Super Bowl MVP awards, slam dunk, hit grand slams and wow us with song and theater performance but we will not speak out against injustices suffered by these brothers and sisters. Most people who read this feel exonerated simply saying, "I'm not a racists." Perhaps they are not racist. But have they considered being an active anti-racist, which could become part of the solution to our beloved nation's greatest problem?
I'll end this blog pointing to whites once again benefitting from Indians. My daughter's family lives in the affluent Nortwest Suburbs of Chicago. My grandchildren in that area attend a school that spends $18,000 per student annually compared to the Illinois average of $14,000. Well, as this school year was shifted from building attendance to online education due to a pandemic you would think homework was increased. My daughter told me that some teachers really loaded up on the homework and damn if the increased work load wasn't caused by India childrens' parents who were calling the teachers and complaining that their kids were NOT being educationally challenged with enough work. There's Hope Folks! We just might see a white kid winning a spelling bee constest in the future!
Saturday, May 30, 2020
Monday, May 25, 2020
Lookin' Back
With 81-years in my rear view mirror, I've come to realize that I've learned a few things and appreciate even more things. I could have avoided some sleepless nights had I know back then that most of the things I worried about never were going to happen. I learned that stock market analyst and meteorologist have one thing in common; they are often wrong predicting.
I learned that you won't accomplish anything noteworthy if you don't take chances. As a young boy, I learned success can win you false friends but likely true enemies. (I'm not sure why, I just felt it).
With hindsight, I learned that many of the things I accomplished actually could have been done better or sooner. (My dad once told me after I had scored 30 points in a high school basketball game, "Boy you do know that you're not the first one to do that and won't be the last.") I learned in that moment I had better be humble.
I've learned you can't be sure who you can trust. I've learned that the combination of sweat and dirt in a baseball glove releases a wonderful aroma years later. I've learned if your job is your passion then you'll never work a day in your life. I've learned you can't control everything but you can control your response to anything.
I've learned that no matter gender, age, color, politics or religious persuasion, we all need the same things, namely love, hope, opportunities and freedom to pursue. I've learned that I enjoy seeing a sermon rather than hearing one. I've learned that watching a young child do hand motions to the words of 'Itsy Bisty Spider,' that I just saw and heard the greatest 'Love Song.' I've learned that foods, which are white and taste good are bad for me.
I've learned that it's easier coaching the other guy's team as it is raising somebody else's children. I've learned that America ranks below many nations in education because America does not value education as much as many other nations. I've learned we Americans 'get off' chanting USA at Olympic venues because in somethings it's important to be Number 1. I've learned that it's more important to 'get it right' than to 'be right.' I've learned the older I become the more the back of my hands look like my father's hands.
I've learned that my adult children grew to be loving, positive, successful and caring people due to me...because I provided the necessary ingredient marrying the girl who would become their mother.
I learned that you won't accomplish anything noteworthy if you don't take chances. As a young boy, I learned success can win you false friends but likely true enemies. (I'm not sure why, I just felt it).
With hindsight, I learned that many of the things I accomplished actually could have been done better or sooner. (My dad once told me after I had scored 30 points in a high school basketball game, "Boy you do know that you're not the first one to do that and won't be the last.") I learned in that moment I had better be humble.
I've learned you can't be sure who you can trust. I've learned that the combination of sweat and dirt in a baseball glove releases a wonderful aroma years later. I've learned if your job is your passion then you'll never work a day in your life. I've learned you can't control everything but you can control your response to anything.
I've learned that no matter gender, age, color, politics or religious persuasion, we all need the same things, namely love, hope, opportunities and freedom to pursue. I've learned that I enjoy seeing a sermon rather than hearing one. I've learned that watching a young child do hand motions to the words of 'Itsy Bisty Spider,' that I just saw and heard the greatest 'Love Song.' I've learned that foods, which are white and taste good are bad for me.
I've learned that it's easier coaching the other guy's team as it is raising somebody else's children. I've learned that America ranks below many nations in education because America does not value education as much as many other nations. I've learned we Americans 'get off' chanting USA at Olympic venues because in somethings it's important to be Number 1. I've learned that it's more important to 'get it right' than to 'be right.' I've learned the older I become the more the back of my hands look like my father's hands.
I've learned that my adult children grew to be loving, positive, successful and caring people due to me...because I provided the necessary ingredient marrying the girl who would become their mother.
Thursday, May 21, 2020
When Life Throws Us a Curve.
Being somewhat of a 'control freak' is not all bad just as long as you recognize that which is out-of-your-control. Every leader that I've observed has control tendencies. Leaders tend to believe they can make things happen if they are afforded opportunity, allowed to apply their abilities and have control of the charge. All leaders must 'have or take' control. That said, we sometimes face a circumstance that spins far beyond our capacity to harness, direct or change.
Life can toss us a curve ball and we must 'adapt' to that which is out of our control by making 'adjustments,' which we can control. As a baseball pitcher, I often had umpires who were high strike zone umps, others low strike zone callers or umpires who expanded the width of the plate. Those umpiring tendencies were beyond my control therefore I 'adapted' with pitch location 'adjustments.'
Similarly, as a basketball coach, I constantly preached to my players that officiating styles, game in and game out, will be out of our control therefore be ready to adapt with defensive adjustments.
Five months ago, you and I were sailing along enjoying our daily life when suddenly we heard the term coronavirus, then daily case increases of infection and soon a death count. We were inundated with a lists of do's and don't's if we wanted to avoid the virus. I suppose the ultimate adjustment for us to find adaptation was dealing with 'shelter-in-place' or 'stay-at-home' mandates.
I've not heard any voices saying any of this has been fun but for survival we do what we must do. As many have expressed, I miss jumping in the auto and visiting my kids, grandkids and great grandchildren. I miss going out for meals, taking leisurely strolls through shopping centers, market places and watching college and pro sports.
My days remain anything but boring. I write something everyday. Sometimes it's notations for a future book or blog, other times it's just personal thoughts. I exercise by walking. I get down and dirty with yard landscaping and maintenance. I record LP records and 45's onto CD's for the joy in sending the CD to a friend or family member. I order too much stuff from Wayfair but rationalize the expenditure telling myself that during this shelter in place, I'm saving gas money, entertainment money and dinning out money. I have come to recognize my love for peanuts, bananas, music, cooking new recipes, getting my hands dirty and taking periodic breaks sitting on a bench next to my pup, Yodie...I can do all that at home.
My kids Steve, Dawn and Pamela are wonderful as are the older grandkids who telephone frequently. Actually, my son, Steve telephones three times each day; once to see how his mom is feeling and what our plans might be for the day. He calls a second time to discuss coaching or sports in general. At least once a day, he calls to ask 'why' and 'how come' questions about President Trump and Evangelical Conservatives. My explanations answering those questions about Trump and Evangelicals usually include words i.e., greed, racism, religious bigotry, judgmental mentality, abortion-duped, white privilege, backlash to first Black President, ignorance, status frustration/anger and some words best not printed.
I must stop now and finishing transplanting some Hostas.
Life can toss us a curve ball and we must 'adapt' to that which is out of our control by making 'adjustments,' which we can control. As a baseball pitcher, I often had umpires who were high strike zone umps, others low strike zone callers or umpires who expanded the width of the plate. Those umpiring tendencies were beyond my control therefore I 'adapted' with pitch location 'adjustments.'
Similarly, as a basketball coach, I constantly preached to my players that officiating styles, game in and game out, will be out of our control therefore be ready to adapt with defensive adjustments.
Five months ago, you and I were sailing along enjoying our daily life when suddenly we heard the term coronavirus, then daily case increases of infection and soon a death count. We were inundated with a lists of do's and don't's if we wanted to avoid the virus. I suppose the ultimate adjustment for us to find adaptation was dealing with 'shelter-in-place' or 'stay-at-home' mandates.
I've not heard any voices saying any of this has been fun but for survival we do what we must do. As many have expressed, I miss jumping in the auto and visiting my kids, grandkids and great grandchildren. I miss going out for meals, taking leisurely strolls through shopping centers, market places and watching college and pro sports.
My days remain anything but boring. I write something everyday. Sometimes it's notations for a future book or blog, other times it's just personal thoughts. I exercise by walking. I get down and dirty with yard landscaping and maintenance. I record LP records and 45's onto CD's for the joy in sending the CD to a friend or family member. I order too much stuff from Wayfair but rationalize the expenditure telling myself that during this shelter in place, I'm saving gas money, entertainment money and dinning out money. I have come to recognize my love for peanuts, bananas, music, cooking new recipes, getting my hands dirty and taking periodic breaks sitting on a bench next to my pup, Yodie...I can do all that at home.
My kids Steve, Dawn and Pamela are wonderful as are the older grandkids who telephone frequently. Actually, my son, Steve telephones three times each day; once to see how his mom is feeling and what our plans might be for the day. He calls a second time to discuss coaching or sports in general. At least once a day, he calls to ask 'why' and 'how come' questions about President Trump and Evangelical Conservatives. My explanations answering those questions about Trump and Evangelicals usually include words i.e., greed, racism, religious bigotry, judgmental mentality, abortion-duped, white privilege, backlash to first Black President, ignorance, status frustration/anger and some words best not printed.
I must stop now and finishing transplanting some Hostas.
Sunday, May 17, 2020
Recall Check List; Thought Provoking
I've been immersed in landscaping these past few weeks and if the weather ever decides to give some summer-like consistency, I'll do ever more. Obviously, this surge of energy and aesthetic yard planning found impetus in numerous days of Coronavirus 'House Arrest.'
I did have an interesting interruption a couple of days to accommodate my nine year old South Barrington, Illinois granddaughter, Ashlyn. She telephoned last week to ask if I'd be her interview subject for a school project. The assignment was to do a biography, I suppose of a family member.
I told her I was humbled that she would ask me; I'm sure her mother later explained to her the definition of humble.
I was surprised it was broad-gauged. Here are a few of those questions:
1) What things did you enjoy doing in your youth and how did they change over the years?
2) Name three role models growing up and why?
3) What occupation did you choose and why?
4) What do you consider your greatest occupation accomplishments?
5) What did you enjoy the most about your occupation?
6) What advise would you give young people today?
7) What advise would you give yourself as a young person if you could?
8) Would you do things the same if given the chance to do it over?
I may have left out a few of her interview questions but those are the readily recalled. I can honestly say that I had not given much thought to some of the answer and in retrospect, I found the exercise refreshing and personally revealing. Perhaps you readers might take a few minutes and think of responses you might have to such inquiries.
I hope Ashlyn and I get a good grade on this project but knowing Ashlyn's mother (my daughter, Dawn as I do), I believe we're GOOD!
I did have an interesting interruption a couple of days to accommodate my nine year old South Barrington, Illinois granddaughter, Ashlyn. She telephoned last week to ask if I'd be her interview subject for a school project. The assignment was to do a biography, I suppose of a family member.
I told her I was humbled that she would ask me; I'm sure her mother later explained to her the definition of humble.
I was surprised it was broad-gauged. Here are a few of those questions:
1) What things did you enjoy doing in your youth and how did they change over the years?
2) Name three role models growing up and why?
3) What occupation did you choose and why?
4) What do you consider your greatest occupation accomplishments?
5) What did you enjoy the most about your occupation?
6) What advise would you give young people today?
7) What advise would you give yourself as a young person if you could?
8) Would you do things the same if given the chance to do it over?
I may have left out a few of her interview questions but those are the readily recalled. I can honestly say that I had not given much thought to some of the answer and in retrospect, I found the exercise refreshing and personally revealing. Perhaps you readers might take a few minutes and think of responses you might have to such inquiries.
I hope Ashlyn and I get a good grade on this project but knowing Ashlyn's mother (my daughter, Dawn as I do), I believe we're GOOD!
Friday, May 15, 2020
Own The Outcome
The medical scientist encouraged Federal andd State governments to 'shelter-in-place' / 'stay-at-home'
during the outset of the coronavirus in the attempt to minimize the unbridled infection rate. Not to anybody's surprise, we Americans have had it with these quasi quarantines. The economy has suffered and our freedoms have been handcuffed many claim.
Michigan has had armed protesters storming their State Capital in an effort to intimidate their Governor to lift the stay at home policy and Wisconsin's Supreme Court recently overturned that State's stay at home order. President Trump praised Wisconsin's Supreme Court's ruling and many Wisconsinites celebrated at crowded bars ignoring face masks and social distancing.
So, let's get a clear picture of this. Our President marched his hand selected coronavirus medical team before the American people with coronavirus update briefings. During those briefings, aside from the President praising himself, he had puppet Vice President Pence hold up a placard outlining 'The President's' guideline for reducing and eliminating the virus. Among those 'musts' 1) wash hands 2) social distancing and later 3) wear face masks. I'll be damned if those suggested Presidential guidelines were not shit-canned by one State's Supreme Court ruling and then praised and endorsement President Trump.
Finally, keep in mind that the President's coronavirus task force established criteria, which if met would allow States to begin opening businesses. No State has met those criteria but most are opening. Secondly, the President has now chosen to diss doctors and scientists who are calling for caution. This is the same President who believes you can halt a hurricane by dropping an atomic bomb in its 'eye.' He also maintains that energy producing wind-turbines causes cancer. He believes there's a possibility that injecting or ingesting disinfectants could kill the coronavirus in human organs.
Ps. Make no mistake that those saloon cowboys and bar maids serving up drinks to patrons ignoring social distance and mask wearing feel liberated and are enjoying what they falsely believe is their constitutional freedoms. These people would be the first parents to raise holy hell when their child comes home from grade school with lice only to find out there's no school policy about students with lice...'whatever floats your boat!'
To borrow and paraphrase Col. Nathan Jessup's comment to military attorney, LT. Daniel Kaffee in the movie 'A Few Good Men,' "You Can't Handle The Truth!" Therefore, you accept the endless lies of Donald Trump.
during the outset of the coronavirus in the attempt to minimize the unbridled infection rate. Not to anybody's surprise, we Americans have had it with these quasi quarantines. The economy has suffered and our freedoms have been handcuffed many claim.
Michigan has had armed protesters storming their State Capital in an effort to intimidate their Governor to lift the stay at home policy and Wisconsin's Supreme Court recently overturned that State's stay at home order. President Trump praised Wisconsin's Supreme Court's ruling and many Wisconsinites celebrated at crowded bars ignoring face masks and social distancing.
So, let's get a clear picture of this. Our President marched his hand selected coronavirus medical team before the American people with coronavirus update briefings. During those briefings, aside from the President praising himself, he had puppet Vice President Pence hold up a placard outlining 'The President's' guideline for reducing and eliminating the virus. Among those 'musts' 1) wash hands 2) social distancing and later 3) wear face masks. I'll be damned if those suggested Presidential guidelines were not shit-canned by one State's Supreme Court ruling and then praised and endorsement President Trump.
Finally, keep in mind that the President's coronavirus task force established criteria, which if met would allow States to begin opening businesses. No State has met those criteria but most are opening. Secondly, the President has now chosen to diss doctors and scientists who are calling for caution. This is the same President who believes you can halt a hurricane by dropping an atomic bomb in its 'eye.' He also maintains that energy producing wind-turbines causes cancer. He believes there's a possibility that injecting or ingesting disinfectants could kill the coronavirus in human organs.
Ps. Make no mistake that those saloon cowboys and bar maids serving up drinks to patrons ignoring social distance and mask wearing feel liberated and are enjoying what they falsely believe is their constitutional freedoms. These people would be the first parents to raise holy hell when their child comes home from grade school with lice only to find out there's no school policy about students with lice...'whatever floats your boat!'
To borrow and paraphrase Col. Nathan Jessup's comment to military attorney, LT. Daniel Kaffee in the movie 'A Few Good Men,' "You Can't Handle The Truth!" Therefore, you accept the endless lies of Donald Trump.
Thursday, May 14, 2020
Pandemic Shines Light on Little Things
Singer, Kitty Kallen's recording of "Little Things Mean A Lot" hit #1 on the U. S. Billboard chart in 1954. Kallen lived to enjoy many 'little things' as she died in 2016 at age 94.
Undoubtedly in the throes of great change caused by the coronavirus world wide pandemic, I think most people have come to miss and greatly appreciate those 'little things' in our daily lives that have suddenly vanished. I need not elaborate with a list because we are all keenly aware of those 'things.'
I have discoreved as has my wife 'other things' or 'new things' or the intensity of 'old things' done more frequently that have replaced 'Little Things' we used to embrace. While a weather-fickle spring teases, we jump at a sunny or warm day when we can be in our flower garden, veggie garden or doing new designs with five yard fountains along with General yard maintenance. Nothing like embracing beautiful flowers, the green grass and soil beneath...wonderful Little Things!
Our adult children and several grandchildren telephone regularly. Their genuine concerns for mom/dad and grandparents is truly monumental 'little things.' There is not a day that passes when these calls are not made. Just today, my first telephone call was expected at 7:30 AM. Son, Steve was checking in to chat about some current events, speculate about events yet to happen and inquire about our needs and daily 'dance card.' On the later inquiry, I said, "Well since rain is in our forecast, my highlight today is to be interviewed by my nine year old granddaughter, Ashlyn for her school project. Now that will be a special little thing for me and perhaps a special memory-maker for Ashlyn.
Parent-child geographical proximity plays a major role in any social-distancing contact with adult children. Youngest daughter, Pamela (one hour away) gets the wonderful opportunity to pick up garden flower plants for mother and do periodic grocery shopping for the old folks. Son, Steve (one hour 45 minutes South) has made a couple of Decatur runs to shop and bring a Mother's Day gift. Daughter, Dawn is compromised by a 3-hour travel distance and some home court demands. Never-the-less, she calls daily and sent a beautiful bouquet of Mother's Day roses. Daughter in-law, Kathy arranged a Mother's Day pasta w/ bottle of wine 'pick-up dinner' from a local restaraunt. Weekly, 'Little Things' highlights might well be the videos and photos of five-year old great granddaughter, Juniper and 19-month old great grandson, Ryelan. Keep'em comin'!
Finally, on a personal note, I enjoy this little thing of engaging with you readers with my blogs. And I am aware that my rants may be received by some as a pleasant little thing in their lives while others might see them as a gigantic pain in the Ass...and so it is. Enjoy.
(Touch)
Little Things
Undoubtedly in the throes of great change caused by the coronavirus world wide pandemic, I think most people have come to miss and greatly appreciate those 'little things' in our daily lives that have suddenly vanished. I need not elaborate with a list because we are all keenly aware of those 'things.'
I have discoreved as has my wife 'other things' or 'new things' or the intensity of 'old things' done more frequently that have replaced 'Little Things' we used to embrace. While a weather-fickle spring teases, we jump at a sunny or warm day when we can be in our flower garden, veggie garden or doing new designs with five yard fountains along with General yard maintenance. Nothing like embracing beautiful flowers, the green grass and soil beneath...wonderful Little Things!
Our adult children and several grandchildren telephone regularly. Their genuine concerns for mom/dad and grandparents is truly monumental 'little things.' There is not a day that passes when these calls are not made. Just today, my first telephone call was expected at 7:30 AM. Son, Steve was checking in to chat about some current events, speculate about events yet to happen and inquire about our needs and daily 'dance card.' On the later inquiry, I said, "Well since rain is in our forecast, my highlight today is to be interviewed by my nine year old granddaughter, Ashlyn for her school project. Now that will be a special little thing for me and perhaps a special memory-maker for Ashlyn.
Parent-child geographical proximity plays a major role in any social-distancing contact with adult children. Youngest daughter, Pamela (one hour away) gets the wonderful opportunity to pick up garden flower plants for mother and do periodic grocery shopping for the old folks. Son, Steve (one hour 45 minutes South) has made a couple of Decatur runs to shop and bring a Mother's Day gift. Daughter, Dawn is compromised by a 3-hour travel distance and some home court demands. Never-the-less, she calls daily and sent a beautiful bouquet of Mother's Day roses. Daughter in-law, Kathy arranged a Mother's Day pasta w/ bottle of wine 'pick-up dinner' from a local restaraunt. Weekly, 'Little Things' highlights might well be the videos and photos of five-year old great granddaughter, Juniper and 19-month old great grandson, Ryelan. Keep'em comin'!
Finally, on a personal note, I enjoy this little thing of engaging with you readers with my blogs. And I am aware that my rants may be received by some as a pleasant little thing in their lives while others might see them as a gigantic pain in the Ass...and so it is. Enjoy.
(Touch)
Little Things
Tuesday, May 12, 2020
Draw Your Own Conclusions
A few Florida winters ago, I noticed a homemade sign on the shoulder of a busy route US 98, which read: "Go Back Home Nig*^rs." It deeply angered me and I wrote a follow up blog calling out some of the long lasting racial bigotry found in the American South. A reader suggested that I was "profiling" Southern whites. I will acknowledge that racial prejudice is found in all corners of our country and throughout the world. There are people everywhere embracing prejudicial attitudes about numerous things, i.e., race, religion, ethnicities, etc.
Last evening I thought about those Southern prejudices while watching Chris Cuomo interview a Georgia Defense Attorney, Kevin Gough who is representing William 'Roddie' Bryan who video-taped the alleged murdering of Ahmaud Arbrey by Greg and Travis McMichael in Glynn County, Georgia. Defense attorney Gough and his client, Bryan appeared on the Cuomo show together and as expected, Attorney Gough was very cautious not to permit his client, Bryan to answer many of Cuomo's questions. Early in the interview exchange Attorney Gough said, and I paraphrase, 'All due respect to you Mr. Cuomo, you are a very good prosecuting attorney and Mr. Bryan is a mechanic with a high school education and if you have ever been to any of the high schools around here that ain't sayin' very much.' Here is a Southern educated lawyer truly profiling his neighbors saying essentially, "our folks are not very educated."
I know from research that Red States rank slightly below the national high school graduation average and Blue States rank slightly above the national high school graduation rate. Continuing this educational theme, I can also claim that people living in Blue States receive college degrees at a greater rate than the national average and Red State occupants garner those college degrees at a rate below the national average. Does that mean Blue state folks are smarter than Red state folks? No! And since Red States' people tend to attend church more frequently than folks in Blue States does this indicate people from Red States are more religious than people from Blue States? Likewise, No! However, consider this: Brown vs. The Board of Education ruled that segregation of public schools was unconstitutional. Southern States fought this ruling for some nine years. It opened the defeat wounds traced back to the Civil War.
American psychologist, Gordon Allport concluded from his extensive research that prejudices are best reduced when four conditions are met: 1) Group shares a common goal, 2) Intergroup cooperation exist, 3) Every person in group is valued and 4) Law or authority support the contact.
The South fought this Allport concept passionately and regional generational racism became somewhat of a legacy, which is alive today in many areas of The South; embraced with similar passion for the Confederate flag.
You readers can come to your own conclusions and I'm certain you will. Before arriving at your conclusion ask if today's American leadership is making the assimilation of people better or worse?
Last evening I thought about those Southern prejudices while watching Chris Cuomo interview a Georgia Defense Attorney, Kevin Gough who is representing William 'Roddie' Bryan who video-taped the alleged murdering of Ahmaud Arbrey by Greg and Travis McMichael in Glynn County, Georgia. Defense attorney Gough and his client, Bryan appeared on the Cuomo show together and as expected, Attorney Gough was very cautious not to permit his client, Bryan to answer many of Cuomo's questions. Early in the interview exchange Attorney Gough said, and I paraphrase, 'All due respect to you Mr. Cuomo, you are a very good prosecuting attorney and Mr. Bryan is a mechanic with a high school education and if you have ever been to any of the high schools around here that ain't sayin' very much.' Here is a Southern educated lawyer truly profiling his neighbors saying essentially, "our folks are not very educated."
I know from research that Red States rank slightly below the national high school graduation average and Blue States rank slightly above the national high school graduation rate. Continuing this educational theme, I can also claim that people living in Blue States receive college degrees at a greater rate than the national average and Red State occupants garner those college degrees at a rate below the national average. Does that mean Blue state folks are smarter than Red state folks? No! And since Red States' people tend to attend church more frequently than folks in Blue States does this indicate people from Red States are more religious than people from Blue States? Likewise, No! However, consider this: Brown vs. The Board of Education ruled that segregation of public schools was unconstitutional. Southern States fought this ruling for some nine years. It opened the defeat wounds traced back to the Civil War.
American psychologist, Gordon Allport concluded from his extensive research that prejudices are best reduced when four conditions are met: 1) Group shares a common goal, 2) Intergroup cooperation exist, 3) Every person in group is valued and 4) Law or authority support the contact.
The South fought this Allport concept passionately and regional generational racism became somewhat of a legacy, which is alive today in many areas of The South; embraced with similar passion for the Confederate flag.
You readers can come to your own conclusions and I'm certain you will. Before arriving at your conclusion ask if today's American leadership is making the assimilation of people better or worse?
Monday, May 11, 2020
Virus Fallout and Lessons Learn
My maternal grandmother, 'Mammy' Bennett, the family Christianity lightening rod often said, "The Lord won't put more on your plate than you can handle and He will never abandon you." That is comforting and I do believe it. Mammy's husband, E. V. once told me that lessons learn in the school of hard-knocks are never forgotten." That is not comforting but I believe it because I've experienced it and so have you who are reading this rant.
As a former competitive athlete and athletic coach, I more readily recall setbacks and defeats than I do the more frequently experienced victories. I can only conclude this is a reality because the 'agony (sting of loss) lingers nearer the emotional surface for recall than does the ecstasy of victory.' Furthermore, I understand quickly the 'why' for defeat rather than the 'why' for victory. I suppose those are the 'hard-knock' lessons E.V. was suggesting.
The fallout-lessons being learn from this worldwide coronavirus pandemic certainly are relentless and shall be remembered for a lifetime. Here are but a few of my coronavirus lesson perceptions:
1. I can protest with a firearm, which is not seen as weapon but my hug or handshake is a weapon.
2. I've learn that my government leaders have a similar philosophy as my father who once told me to "Do as I say, not as I do," thus explaining why those leaders reject all virus mitigating protocol.
3. The nation's economic well-being is more important than the life of its senior citizen. Oldsters would be better off as an unborn fetus today. All the Evangelical preachers, i.e., Franklin Graham and others must be on board with this notion since they don't speak out as they do on abortions.
4. I must lear n to deal with the emotional angst not being able to embrace, hug or kiss a child, grandchild or great-grandchild.
5. I am sorting through the logic of a people that would invade a land, capture the natives and place them on reservations, then after telling them to "shelter-in-place" due to a killer virus are then told they must reopen to travelers. Does this mean anybody may now enter my property?
6. I must now listen more carefully to spoken words and voice tone/inflection since face masks now deny 'reading another's facial expressions.
7. I discorevered during my 81-year journey that I took for granted restaurant dinning, touching objects, shopping ventures, concert and theater attendance and breaking bread at church.
8. I must re-invent graduation, wedding and life-ending celebrations.
9. This pandemic has deprived me of my sports' following and proven to me that Hero personalities can change on a dime or should I say, a virus. I would anticipate that soon teachers will be signing multi-million dollar contracts, nurses and doctors' photos will begin appearing on bubble gum cards and first responders and reasearch scientiests will be inducted in the Health Care Hall of Fame while political leaders will receive Golden Globe and Academy Awards in areas of Science Fiction and Cartoons.
10. Learn to pray more often for those fighting for air, those running towards infection to help and those who cannot be bedside holding the hand of a dying loved one..
Finally, the most difficult lesson to process and bitter to learn is the 'open' dismantling of the American free press and the take over of a Trump White House informational propaganda.
I can say that which I fought to never say, "I long for the good old days," when America WAS great!
As a former competitive athlete and athletic coach, I more readily recall setbacks and defeats than I do the more frequently experienced victories. I can only conclude this is a reality because the 'agony (sting of loss) lingers nearer the emotional surface for recall than does the ecstasy of victory.' Furthermore, I understand quickly the 'why' for defeat rather than the 'why' for victory. I suppose those are the 'hard-knock' lessons E.V. was suggesting.
The fallout-lessons being learn from this worldwide coronavirus pandemic certainly are relentless and shall be remembered for a lifetime. Here are but a few of my coronavirus lesson perceptions:
1. I can protest with a firearm, which is not seen as weapon but my hug or handshake is a weapon.
2. I've learn that my government leaders have a similar philosophy as my father who once told me to "Do as I say, not as I do," thus explaining why those leaders reject all virus mitigating protocol.
3. The nation's economic well-being is more important than the life of its senior citizen. Oldsters would be better off as an unborn fetus today. All the Evangelical preachers, i.e., Franklin Graham and others must be on board with this notion since they don't speak out as they do on abortions.
4. I must lear n to deal with the emotional angst not being able to embrace, hug or kiss a child, grandchild or great-grandchild.
5. I am sorting through the logic of a people that would invade a land, capture the natives and place them on reservations, then after telling them to "shelter-in-place" due to a killer virus are then told they must reopen to travelers. Does this mean anybody may now enter my property?
6. I must now listen more carefully to spoken words and voice tone/inflection since face masks now deny 'reading another's facial expressions.
7. I discorevered during my 81-year journey that I took for granted restaurant dinning, touching objects, shopping ventures, concert and theater attendance and breaking bread at church.
8. I must re-invent graduation, wedding and life-ending celebrations.
9. This pandemic has deprived me of my sports' following and proven to me that Hero personalities can change on a dime or should I say, a virus. I would anticipate that soon teachers will be signing multi-million dollar contracts, nurses and doctors' photos will begin appearing on bubble gum cards and first responders and reasearch scientiests will be inducted in the Health Care Hall of Fame while political leaders will receive Golden Globe and Academy Awards in areas of Science Fiction and Cartoons.
10. Learn to pray more often for those fighting for air, those running towards infection to help and those who cannot be bedside holding the hand of a dying loved one..
Finally, the most difficult lesson to process and bitter to learn is the 'open' dismantling of the American free press and the take over of a Trump White House informational propaganda.
I can say that which I fought to never say, "I long for the good old days," when America WAS great!
Friday, May 8, 2020
I Wish I Was 18 Again
I suppose I shouldn't be surprised, we just needed the right circumstances to create the narrative. I'm talking about age expectancy behaviors. Let me elaborate.
In life's journey, we American mortals can anticipate certain events, expectations and occurrences as age-levels come. About the age of four, children are introduced to the educational journey with something called pre-school. A year later the 'tag' is kindergarten and at age six we begin the 12-year grade countdown towards a high school diploma with the first grade.
There are other perceived and arbitrarily assigned age-ready plateaus. At sixteen young people can become automobile drivers and at age eighteen they may drive to the polls to vote and the fellas best find their way to register for the military. Generally speaking age twenty-one is deemed the proper age for folks to legally 'belly-up-to-the-bar.'
All Americans who reach age 50, are eligible for AARP Membership although age 65 is still considered the 'Senior Citizen Club.' If one chooses one may begin drawing Social Security benefits at age 62. And of course, insurance companies have bought off the necessary 'for sale politicians' to parlay age levels when we expect you old men to get prostate cancer so no more PSA testing for you fella and you old ladies can forget that Pap smear.
Well, I thought for years that pretty well covered all the age related behavior expectations but then came along a virus pandemic. A pandemic that dictated sheltering in our homes and closing down the economy. Soon the economic health was pitted against the most vulnerable of our population and several Republican lawmakers agreed with Texas LT. Governor Dan Patrick who suggested that grandparents are willing to die to save the economy for grandchildren. He said, "There are more important things than living." So, the party that pontificates the sanctity of life at its potential beginning is more than ready to throw grandma's ass on the alter of sacrifice for money.
Considering all the tax concerns GOP folks embrace it makes sense. Kill off your old people and the economy could truly benefit. The healthcare cost plummet, social security and retirement funds become more solvent and you get a better parking spot at Walmart with the reduction of handicap parking spaces.
(Touch)
I Wish I Was 18 Again
In life's journey, we American mortals can anticipate certain events, expectations and occurrences as age-levels come. About the age of four, children are introduced to the educational journey with something called pre-school. A year later the 'tag' is kindergarten and at age six we begin the 12-year grade countdown towards a high school diploma with the first grade.
There are other perceived and arbitrarily assigned age-ready plateaus. At sixteen young people can become automobile drivers and at age eighteen they may drive to the polls to vote and the fellas best find their way to register for the military. Generally speaking age twenty-one is deemed the proper age for folks to legally 'belly-up-to-the-bar.'
All Americans who reach age 50, are eligible for AARP Membership although age 65 is still considered the 'Senior Citizen Club.' If one chooses one may begin drawing Social Security benefits at age 62. And of course, insurance companies have bought off the necessary 'for sale politicians' to parlay age levels when we expect you old men to get prostate cancer so no more PSA testing for you fella and you old ladies can forget that Pap smear.
Well, I thought for years that pretty well covered all the age related behavior expectations but then came along a virus pandemic. A pandemic that dictated sheltering in our homes and closing down the economy. Soon the economic health was pitted against the most vulnerable of our population and several Republican lawmakers agreed with Texas LT. Governor Dan Patrick who suggested that grandparents are willing to die to save the economy for grandchildren. He said, "There are more important things than living." So, the party that pontificates the sanctity of life at its potential beginning is more than ready to throw grandma's ass on the alter of sacrifice for money.
Considering all the tax concerns GOP folks embrace it makes sense. Kill off your old people and the economy could truly benefit. The healthcare cost plummet, social security and retirement funds become more solvent and you get a better parking spot at Walmart with the reduction of handicap parking spaces.
(Touch)
I Wish I Was 18 Again
Thursday, May 7, 2020
Easier Said Than Done
Today, I finished trimming and cutting the grass before sitting a spell on the backyard swing with pup,Yodie to ponder a bit. I need to stop doing that. Not the grass thing or sitting with Yodie but that dadgum 'pondering.' It fatigues a fella!
I got to thinking about my restless night of sleep. I spent much of the night worrying about my kids, grandkids, their spouses and great grandkids and this horrible virus lurking about our daily lives. I am much aware of the folly found in my thoughts knowing that I am to recognize things I cannot control and let go and let God. I truly stumble in these areas and interestingly enough, I do so because of the four attitudes instilled in me, which served me, mine and others very well in accordance to a Master's plan. Those attitude traits? 1) Look for ways the improve things in your midst, 2) prepare, 3) orchestrate outcomes and 4) serve others.
Okay, when it comes to this virus thing my wife and I are focused on doing our best to stay safe by following all medical advice and protocol. I want that for my loved ones but when I ponder, I conclude they are at various stages of the journey I know so well. The young are invincible just ask them; I recall those days. The middle aged are emmersed in the demands of professional work and providing. Been there done that!
I never the less speak out of turn and give my advice. I remind the family members of my aforementioned concerns and I'm told not to worry. And I don't worry when cutting the grass or watching a movie or working in the garden but man those 'midnight hours' can surely kick my butt.
I got to thinking about my restless night of sleep. I spent much of the night worrying about my kids, grandkids, their spouses and great grandkids and this horrible virus lurking about our daily lives. I am much aware of the folly found in my thoughts knowing that I am to recognize things I cannot control and let go and let God. I truly stumble in these areas and interestingly enough, I do so because of the four attitudes instilled in me, which served me, mine and others very well in accordance to a Master's plan. Those attitude traits? 1) Look for ways the improve things in your midst, 2) prepare, 3) orchestrate outcomes and 4) serve others.
Okay, when it comes to this virus thing my wife and I are focused on doing our best to stay safe by following all medical advice and protocol. I want that for my loved ones but when I ponder, I conclude they are at various stages of the journey I know so well. The young are invincible just ask them; I recall those days. The middle aged are emmersed in the demands of professional work and providing. Been there done that!
I never the less speak out of turn and give my advice. I remind the family members of my aforementioned concerns and I'm told not to worry. And I don't worry when cutting the grass or watching a movie or working in the garden but man those 'midnight hours' can surely kick my butt.
Tuesday, May 5, 2020
Glory To His Name
Although I am undoubtedly in need of 'The Word,' I do find myself getting a lot of religion these days due to this coronavirus 'time out' circumstances. Let me explain. Currently, I don't 'go' to church but I tune into church...and not just one church but on a Sunday these days, I'm checking our three services. I watch my home church Grace United Methodist then I check out Dr. Charles Stanley's 'In-Touch' ministries and finally, I pick up on The Rock & Roll Church in Miramar Beach, Florida. Even tho the collection plate is not passed, my wife will send tithe money to Grace and periodic donations to In-Touch Ministries, I usually purchase CD's of Rock & Roll services and send to my children.
These three services offer three completely different message and music styles, which underscores the modern day reality that God's Word these days is marketed with a desire to attract the consumer. This eighty-one year old writer grew up in a traditional throw-back Methodist Church that had one style, which was old gospel hymns and a simple straightforward message of choice, repent of your sins to gain salvation or burn in hell. Praise the Lord and don't forget the week-long tent revival meeting beginning next Sunday night.
With a hell-fire-damnation sermon exposure background, I can handle just about any preacher's message and apply it. That said, I will admit I do turn off some messages. I don't cotton to preachers who suggest, "God came to me in a vision or God spoke to me and blah, blah, blah." That's all . hearsay. I'm like Judge Judy, hearsay ain't admissible. I'm not going to listen to a politically laced sermon because those sermons have nothing to do with my soul. Now if churches start paying taxes I will likely change my attitude. Finally, I'm not interested in that worn out doom and gloom message suggesting we Christians are persecuted. That's simply poppycock; hogwash! In my lifetime and in my country, I've seen three faith based religions verbally attacked, persecuted and terrorized: Jews (Synagogues), Muslims (Mosques) and Black Chruches of any denomination. So spare that foolish talk about not being able to say, "Merry Christmas," or "They won't let us have prayer in school."
(You cannot have prayer in school because the damn constitution won't permit it, dummies). "They won't let us place the Ten Commandments in The Public Square." (Again, its that Constitution).
Please spare this Christian that persecution language. Christ was persecuted and died in my place for my sins. Therefore, Punch my ticket for the 'Glory Hallelujah Shout for Joy Train.' I've never felt persecuted; only blessed.
I must stop here before I lose what religion I've got. These time out days find me meditating frequently and realizing the need for more forgiveness.
(Touch)
People Get Ready
These three services offer three completely different message and music styles, which underscores the modern day reality that God's Word these days is marketed with a desire to attract the consumer. This eighty-one year old writer grew up in a traditional throw-back Methodist Church that had one style, which was old gospel hymns and a simple straightforward message of choice, repent of your sins to gain salvation or burn in hell. Praise the Lord and don't forget the week-long tent revival meeting beginning next Sunday night.
With a hell-fire-damnation sermon exposure background, I can handle just about any preacher's message and apply it. That said, I will admit I do turn off some messages. I don't cotton to preachers who suggest, "God came to me in a vision or God spoke to me and blah, blah, blah." That's all . hearsay. I'm like Judge Judy, hearsay ain't admissible. I'm not going to listen to a politically laced sermon because those sermons have nothing to do with my soul. Now if churches start paying taxes I will likely change my attitude. Finally, I'm not interested in that worn out doom and gloom message suggesting we Christians are persecuted. That's simply poppycock; hogwash! In my lifetime and in my country, I've seen three faith based religions verbally attacked, persecuted and terrorized: Jews (Synagogues), Muslims (Mosques) and Black Chruches of any denomination. So spare that foolish talk about not being able to say, "Merry Christmas," or "They won't let us have prayer in school."
(You cannot have prayer in school because the damn constitution won't permit it, dummies). "They won't let us place the Ten Commandments in The Public Square." (Again, its that Constitution).
Please spare this Christian that persecution language. Christ was persecuted and died in my place for my sins. Therefore, Punch my ticket for the 'Glory Hallelujah Shout for Joy Train.' I've never felt persecuted; only blessed.
I must stop here before I lose what religion I've got. These time out days find me meditating frequently and realizing the need for more forgiveness.
(Touch)
People Get Ready
Sunday, May 3, 2020
Check Signing Optional for this POTUS
My wife and I got our coronavirus induced stimulus check last week. I'm not stupid enough to make the claim that the money was 'our' / 'my' tax money...because it is NOT! Most stimulus monies come from the treasury from the selling of bonds while some monies come from other federal budgets. So don't be one of those doofus that say the government is just giving back what was in fact once mine.
I did not actually 'see' my stimulus check due to the direct bank deposit process. I did however get a letter from President Trump who wants to take a 'glory-praise-me-lap' around the country by being the first United States president in history to put a personal signature on a federal stimulus check or IRS check. Trump's reasoning for signing 'our' stimulus check is to give the appearance that he (Donald Trump) paid us the money. Observing and listening to interviews counducted with Trump followers, I would easily believe they would buy into his smoke and mirrors charades.
There was another 'stimulus-transaction' involving Donald Trump that he did not want credit for signing the check. Nope, somebody else signed Stormy Daniels check.
I did not actually 'see' my stimulus check due to the direct bank deposit process. I did however get a letter from President Trump who wants to take a 'glory-praise-me-lap' around the country by being the first United States president in history to put a personal signature on a federal stimulus check or IRS check. Trump's reasoning for signing 'our' stimulus check is to give the appearance that he (Donald Trump) paid us the money. Observing and listening to interviews counducted with Trump followers, I would easily believe they would buy into his smoke and mirrors charades.
There was another 'stimulus-transaction' involving Donald Trump that he did not want credit for signing the check. Nope, somebody else signed Stormy Daniels check.
Saturday, May 2, 2020
Sorting Things Out...Best I Can
Legendary Major League Baseball pitcher, Leroy 'Satchel' Paige when asked what he did in his spare time said, "Oh, sometimes I sits and thinks and sometimes I just sits." Me too, Leroy and I mostly enjoy just the 'sits' because thinking these days can cause brain-clutter-confusion.
Here's just a few things that I attempt to sort out:
1) As soon as the coronavirus hit us and we were told to stay home, why did folks buy up all the toilet paper in stores? I didn't hear that one of the virus symptoms was the howlin'-skitters. Toilet paper?
2) Shorty after that 'run' on stores, we were told that we must wash our hands frequently and for a duration of two 'Happy Birthday' songs. If we didn't have soap available then use hand sanitizer. I could not find hand sanitizer anywhere after that warning.
3) Also, when bringing groceries into the house, we were told we needed to use sanitize wipes on every product plus all counter tops, door knobs and light switches. Upon that warning all sanitizing wipes disappeared from grocery store shelves. In fact, the local Target Store manager told me that all Target stores in the States of Washington and California bought up all his sanitizing products before he could put them on his local shelves.
4) More recently, President Trump suggested that disinfectants might attack the virus in the lungs and make it disappear...then two things happened: disinfectants sold out and poison control calls increased 40%.
5) Why does the President frequently say, "I'm not a doctor," and then gives doctoring advice?
6) If the director of The Center for Disease Control and the infectious disease expert, Dr. Fauci are going to counterdict the President at these Coronavirus briefings shouldn't somebody just stay away?
7) First awe were adamantly told that we did not need face masks and now we have cities across America where one cannot bebin public without wearing a mask. What's a flea to believe?
8) Currently, we have this ridiculous debate regarding re-opening businesses or not re-opening businesses. That's easily resolved>Seems to me that we should re-open all businesses when all the nation hospitals re-open. Simply stated, when family members are once again allowed to sit at bedside of a dying loved one then open the tattoo parlors and bowling alleys.
Oh, by the way there will be a shortage of pork and chicken at the grocery stores due to coronavirus shutdowns at processing plants. And...you best hope your freezer does not go out as did my friends. She cannot find a freezer for sale in the entire city of Decatur. Wonder why? Speaking of wondering, I wonder if the Berean Christian Book Stores have sold out Bibles?
Here's just a few things that I attempt to sort out:
1) As soon as the coronavirus hit us and we were told to stay home, why did folks buy up all the toilet paper in stores? I didn't hear that one of the virus symptoms was the howlin'-skitters. Toilet paper?
2) Shorty after that 'run' on stores, we were told that we must wash our hands frequently and for a duration of two 'Happy Birthday' songs. If we didn't have soap available then use hand sanitizer. I could not find hand sanitizer anywhere after that warning.
3) Also, when bringing groceries into the house, we were told we needed to use sanitize wipes on every product plus all counter tops, door knobs and light switches. Upon that warning all sanitizing wipes disappeared from grocery store shelves. In fact, the local Target Store manager told me that all Target stores in the States of Washington and California bought up all his sanitizing products before he could put them on his local shelves.
4) More recently, President Trump suggested that disinfectants might attack the virus in the lungs and make it disappear...then two things happened: disinfectants sold out and poison control calls increased 40%.
5) Why does the President frequently say, "I'm not a doctor," and then gives doctoring advice?
6) If the director of The Center for Disease Control and the infectious disease expert, Dr. Fauci are going to counterdict the President at these Coronavirus briefings shouldn't somebody just stay away?
7) First awe were adamantly told that we did not need face masks and now we have cities across America where one cannot bebin public without wearing a mask. What's a flea to believe?
8) Currently, we have this ridiculous debate regarding re-opening businesses or not re-opening businesses. That's easily resolved>Seems to me that we should re-open all businesses when all the nation hospitals re-open. Simply stated, when family members are once again allowed to sit at bedside of a dying loved one then open the tattoo parlors and bowling alleys.
Oh, by the way there will be a shortage of pork and chicken at the grocery stores due to coronavirus shutdowns at processing plants. And...you best hope your freezer does not go out as did my friends. She cannot find a freezer for sale in the entire city of Decatur. Wonder why? Speaking of wondering, I wonder if the Berean Christian Book Stores have sold out Bibles?
Friday, May 1, 2020
Wish I Was a Stable Genius
On September 22, 2017, President Trump said to the NFL owners, of players protesting police brutality by kneeling during the National Anthem, to say, "Get that son-of-a-bitch off the field right now, you're fired." Of course it was no coincidence that Trump made such remarks in Huntsville, Alabama. For weeks thereafter, we observed a great deal of ugly rhetoric, which stirred the pot of racial tension and division. I guess Trump does not view the likes of Colin Kaepernick as "My African-American over there."
Yesterday the Michigan State Capital lobby was filled with 'white' protesters wearing the American flag in disrespectful ways, carrying assault weapons, ignoring social distancing pleas and shouting demands to remove the coronavirus 'stay-at-home' policy and re-open businesses. Nobody has referenced these protesters as "son-of-a-bitches."
Don't forget that prior to these Michigan demonstrations it was President Trump who 'baited' his base by saying, "Liberate Michigan!" "Liberate Minnesota!" "Liberate Virginia and preserve the great second amendment!" This baiting after repeated television moments showing Vice President Mike Pence holding up Trump's placard calling for social distancing.
I see a leader who promotes divisiveness and a nation that gives a nod to 'White' entitlement. However, since my Evangelical Leaders, who pontificate the 'love' teachings of Christ like Franklin Graham, John Hagee, Robert Jeffress and Jerry Falwell, Jr. remain quiet on these inconsistencies, I will conclude that I see it incorrectly due to my slightly above average intelligence.
Yesterday the Michigan State Capital lobby was filled with 'white' protesters wearing the American flag in disrespectful ways, carrying assault weapons, ignoring social distancing pleas and shouting demands to remove the coronavirus 'stay-at-home' policy and re-open businesses. Nobody has referenced these protesters as "son-of-a-bitches."
Don't forget that prior to these Michigan demonstrations it was President Trump who 'baited' his base by saying, "Liberate Michigan!" "Liberate Minnesota!" "Liberate Virginia and preserve the great second amendment!" This baiting after repeated television moments showing Vice President Mike Pence holding up Trump's placard calling for social distancing.
I see a leader who promotes divisiveness and a nation that gives a nod to 'White' entitlement. However, since my Evangelical Leaders, who pontificate the 'love' teachings of Christ like Franklin Graham, John Hagee, Robert Jeffress and Jerry Falwell, Jr. remain quiet on these inconsistencies, I will conclude that I see it incorrectly due to my slightly above average intelligence.
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