This is personal for me. Sharing it publicly, I acknowledge that there is a understood invitation for readers to weigh-in who will agree and/or disagree and I expect some to attack me. Whatever 'floats your boat...go for t.'
I am an eighty year old lifetime Methodist. I could write a book about how much sawdust is needed during a rainy week long Tent Revival Meeting. I know the words of every alter-calling song in the Methodist Hymnal. Whereas, I am not a Biblical scholar, I am aware of the scripture Cherry-picking folks attempting to find a verse or religion that 'fits' their moccasins. Example: scriptures speak to body piercing and tattoos and also divorce. My Methodist Church has changed its position on both and they've found other scriptures to substantiate the change...I do not disagree with the change. The initial interpretation (and it is an interpretation) was a foolish.
At a recent United Methodist Church conference convention, the Methodist leadership reaffirmed its condemnation of homosexual life-style and from what I can conclude allow homosexuals to attend our Methodist Church but not be allowed full participation except for tithing. Also, no gay or lesbian may be ordained. The Church also denounces The Masonic Order claiming it to be a secret clandestine organization, which causes me to anticipate that soon the Methodist may denounce The Boy Scouts since homosexual can be leaders and members of that organization
Somewhere in that Holy Book there are is a commandment from the lips of Christ telling His followers to, "Love one another as I have love you." I cannot find the list of 'exceptions. Somewhere in that Good Book, Christ said, "Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven." There is not any organization that has done more for suffering little children than that 'clandestine' group of called Shriner's.
I shall finally acknowledge that as a follower of Christ's teachings, I am not to judge. I will pray about my need for His forgiveness just as I will pray for my church leaders who judge freely and change positions over time.
Tomorrow, I will share with you that which I am waiting for my Methodist Church to denounce. I call it false prophet-leadership.
Thursday, February 28, 2019
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
Call Me Kaw-Liga
It all began about one week ago. While showering, I noticed my scalp was rather sensitive to the touch and a small lymph nodule behind my right ear was a bit swollen and also sensitive. As the week progressed my neck and scalp conditioned regressed. By this past Sunday, I had several swollen glands on the right-side of my neck and combing my hair was NOT a consideration.
Sunday late afternoon, I decided it was time to go see old friends at the Miramar Beach, Florida 'Urgent Care.' They are old friends considering that our first three years wintering in the Panhandle, I visited those healthcare providers each year but have not been back for two years. I entered the facility at 5:15PM and to my surprise, I was the only patient. The receptionist greeted me with a warm, "Hi, Mel, long time no see." She said I needed only to show my insurance card because she saw me walking across the parking lot and already printed out my medical info-forms. She said, "I only need to ask one question; Has anybody verbally talked down to you in the past two-years?" I answered, "Only a few Trump supporters."
Promptly the nurse opened a door and called my name. In the moment I physically felt poorly but my spirits lifted. lifted. The Nurse checked my vitals and took info. Soon the Physician Assistant entered the exam room and with a hardy hand-shake inquired about my health the past two years. I told him of my current symptoms and upon examination he was startled to note heavy wax in my ears. He said little about my scalp or gland situation but said he'd write a prescription for an antibiotic. "Meanwhile, I going to have the nurse get that wax out of your ears," he said as departed.
The nurse came back and handed me a little plastic tray saying, "This is a team effort, while you hold this tray under your ear, I'll spray a solution into each ear." What she failed to tell me is she hooked they instrument onto the parking lot fire hydrant. Within ten minutes she had flushed out enough wax to heat and remove the facial hair from the Russian Women's Olympic Volleyball Team.
Headed from Urgent Care to CVS, I drove to the Pick-Up window only to see the shade pulled down...it was 6:01PM...gotta close sometime. Monday morning there was no waiting for CVS to open at 9:00AM; I've got pain and numerous swollen glands...ER time. While blowing drying my head my scalp was on fire!
We arrived at the ER at a good time, so I believed. WRONG! I was the only patient at 6:30AM. The nurses took vitals and info but told me there was a shift change of Doctors. Must be a Union Shop because nothing's happening until folks 'clock-in & clock-out.'
After a very quick not so thorough once-over, the ER Doctor ordered an antibiotic, pain med and a med to lesson Shingles impact. He wasn't sure it was Shingles, "Just in case." I told the ER Doc that I had the Shingles shot and he said "That shot is only 60%'effective." I'm not convinced it's Shingles.
Actually, since the Panhandle winter has been so damp and cool this year, I'm thinking it's Termites.
(Touch)
Kaw-Liga
PS. One prescribed antibiotic comes with a warning: 'Avoid sunlight.' Really? We came to the Sunshine State seeking sunlight. If inventors can create smart phones with navigation systems and Kellogg can put honey on Cheerios, then why NOT a pill laced with 'sunscreen?'
Sunday late afternoon, I decided it was time to go see old friends at the Miramar Beach, Florida 'Urgent Care.' They are old friends considering that our first three years wintering in the Panhandle, I visited those healthcare providers each year but have not been back for two years. I entered the facility at 5:15PM and to my surprise, I was the only patient. The receptionist greeted me with a warm, "Hi, Mel, long time no see." She said I needed only to show my insurance card because she saw me walking across the parking lot and already printed out my medical info-forms. She said, "I only need to ask one question; Has anybody verbally talked down to you in the past two-years?" I answered, "Only a few Trump supporters."
Promptly the nurse opened a door and called my name. In the moment I physically felt poorly but my spirits lifted. lifted. The Nurse checked my vitals and took info. Soon the Physician Assistant entered the exam room and with a hardy hand-shake inquired about my health the past two years. I told him of my current symptoms and upon examination he was startled to note heavy wax in my ears. He said little about my scalp or gland situation but said he'd write a prescription for an antibiotic. "Meanwhile, I going to have the nurse get that wax out of your ears," he said as departed.
The nurse came back and handed me a little plastic tray saying, "This is a team effort, while you hold this tray under your ear, I'll spray a solution into each ear." What she failed to tell me is she hooked they instrument onto the parking lot fire hydrant. Within ten minutes she had flushed out enough wax to heat and remove the facial hair from the Russian Women's Olympic Volleyball Team.
Headed from Urgent Care to CVS, I drove to the Pick-Up window only to see the shade pulled down...it was 6:01PM...gotta close sometime. Monday morning there was no waiting for CVS to open at 9:00AM; I've got pain and numerous swollen glands...ER time. While blowing drying my head my scalp was on fire!
We arrived at the ER at a good time, so I believed. WRONG! I was the only patient at 6:30AM. The nurses took vitals and info but told me there was a shift change of Doctors. Must be a Union Shop because nothing's happening until folks 'clock-in & clock-out.'
After a very quick not so thorough once-over, the ER Doctor ordered an antibiotic, pain med and a med to lesson Shingles impact. He wasn't sure it was Shingles, "Just in case." I told the ER Doc that I had the Shingles shot and he said "That shot is only 60%'effective." I'm not convinced it's Shingles.
Actually, since the Panhandle winter has been so damp and cool this year, I'm thinking it's Termites.
(Touch)
Kaw-Liga
PS. One prescribed antibiotic comes with a warning: 'Avoid sunlight.' Really? We came to the Sunshine State seeking sunlight. If inventors can create smart phones with navigation systems and Kellogg can put honey on Cheerios, then why NOT a pill laced with 'sunscreen?'
Friday, February 22, 2019
The Parenting Experience
I was sitting in a 1959, Illinois State University 'sociology class' called THE FAMILY when the professor began speaking about the pending death of our parents. One comment he made was on the heels of this question: "Which parent is the most difficult to lose to death?" After a few students made various cases, the professor said, "It's the last parent that dies because that death terminates the 'parent-child-relationship." And so it does!
My wife, Gerry and I began our own parenting journey on August 29, 1961. First born son, Steve was followed by first daughter, Dawn in 1965 and last daughter, Pamela in 1968. Our adult children are all married with families of their own. Certainly, my wife and I still do that parenting thing but perhaps more so, we engage with our kids through the grand-parenting and great grand-parenting roles.
I recall many PARENTING LESSONS, which may ring familiar to some readers and serve as a road map for other readers:
1. The inventor of the pacifier should have his bust added to the iconic Mount Rushmore.
2. Never lean over a naked infant boy while changing a diaper.
3. When holding its breath during a temper-tantrum, a child in a high chair will cease that activity forever after tossing a cup of water into his face. Go ahead a report me to DCF; it worked!
4. Adult children don't particularly like unsolicited parenting advice. This is a disposition which I have frequently ignored. My reasoning is simple: Once you invite me into a 'conversation,' I view my status as a Charter Member.
5. If you struggle with 'poop' diapers at or near meal times, you will lose weight.
6. Speaking of diapers, when no longer used on a child don't throw away. They make great dust rags.
7. It takes awhile for a teenager to not be hurt by the answer to the question: "Don't you trust me?"
8. An adolescent can get the impression that parents love them more than each other. Don't allow it!
9. Teens can develop the misconception that the room they sleep-in really belongs to them.
10. The 'used' Roadmaster bike a parent got for Christmas will be rejected by your adolescent.
11. Understanding the extent and complications of Christmas toys' assembly is paramount before purchase. Also, knowledge of batteries' size and number.
12. Your teenager is convinced you are clueless in matters of biological drives and computers...They are correct on one matter.
13. Regarding communication with a child, a parent would be wise to embrace Matthew 5:37...
"Let your YES be YES and you NO be NO."
14. The most exhilarating feeling a man will ever experience is that moment the Doctor delivering your child says, "Your baby and wife are doing just fine."
15. The best parenting gift to a child is a testimony of the need for a relationship with Jesus-Christ.
16. Finally, the thing I miss the most about parenting was when my child was no longer tucked into bed sleeping in the next room.
(Touch)
Parent 'Rap.'
My wife, Gerry and I began our own parenting journey on August 29, 1961. First born son, Steve was followed by first daughter, Dawn in 1965 and last daughter, Pamela in 1968. Our adult children are all married with families of their own. Certainly, my wife and I still do that parenting thing but perhaps more so, we engage with our kids through the grand-parenting and great grand-parenting roles.
I recall many PARENTING LESSONS, which may ring familiar to some readers and serve as a road map for other readers:
1. The inventor of the pacifier should have his bust added to the iconic Mount Rushmore.
2. Never lean over a naked infant boy while changing a diaper.
3. When holding its breath during a temper-tantrum, a child in a high chair will cease that activity forever after tossing a cup of water into his face. Go ahead a report me to DCF; it worked!
4. Adult children don't particularly like unsolicited parenting advice. This is a disposition which I have frequently ignored. My reasoning is simple: Once you invite me into a 'conversation,' I view my status as a Charter Member.
5. If you struggle with 'poop' diapers at or near meal times, you will lose weight.
6. Speaking of diapers, when no longer used on a child don't throw away. They make great dust rags.
7. It takes awhile for a teenager to not be hurt by the answer to the question: "Don't you trust me?"
8. An adolescent can get the impression that parents love them more than each other. Don't allow it!
9. Teens can develop the misconception that the room they sleep-in really belongs to them.
10. The 'used' Roadmaster bike a parent got for Christmas will be rejected by your adolescent.
11. Understanding the extent and complications of Christmas toys' assembly is paramount before purchase. Also, knowledge of batteries' size and number.
12. Your teenager is convinced you are clueless in matters of biological drives and computers...They are correct on one matter.
13. Regarding communication with a child, a parent would be wise to embrace Matthew 5:37...
"Let your YES be YES and you NO be NO."
14. The most exhilarating feeling a man will ever experience is that moment the Doctor delivering your child says, "Your baby and wife are doing just fine."
15. The best parenting gift to a child is a testimony of the need for a relationship with Jesus-Christ.
16. Finally, the thing I miss the most about parenting was when my child was no longer tucked into bed sleeping in the next room.
(Touch)
Parent 'Rap.'
Thursday, February 21, 2019
Women Just Might Do It Better!
I must and will acknowledge my predisposition to embrace social-liberalism persuasions as I champion a diverse society and embrace causes of minorities, which includes racial, ethnic and women's respective fights for rights. That said, I'm never shy to call out my brothers and sisters from those groups when they 'reach for crutches' rather than engaging pro-actively. It's like the great song offered by Jerry Butler, " Only The Strong Survive," therefore 'cinch-it-up' is my mantra.
Today, I wish to reflect upon American women's history. We learned back in middle school about the Women's Suffrage Movement which finally gave ladies voting rights in 1920. Make no mistake that piece of legislation did not wave a magic wand making women close to men in equality! Far from it!
I remember several things women were NOT ALLOWED to do as recently as the 1950's:
1. My mother and other women of that decade could not open a Bank Account without their husband's or an adult family member's signature. That changed with the Equal Credit Opportunity Act of 1974.
2. My mother was not permitted to serve on a Jury until legalized in 1968.
3. No woman could practice law even if they had met all education and testing qualifications until 1971.
4. Birth control pills were available in the 1950's but women could not use them until legislation in 1960 and even then some States did not allow it.
5. A pregnant woman up until 1978, could not legally take a paid maternity leave.
6. Public Breast-feeding was a 'No-No' in the 1950's.
7. Fellas, those smart female high school students that you often copied from could not attend Ivy League schools until 1969.
8. Finally in 1976, women could be admitted to West Point Military Academy.
9. Women were finally permitted to run in the Boston Marathon in 1972.
10. Women finally could be in military combat in 2013.
11. In 1978, women could become an Astronaut.
I have maintained for years that men (especially old white guys) have been 'in control' of America's direction long enough; things are screwed up enough, so much so, it's time! Time to hand over the controls to women. Women just might do it better!
(Touch)
Only The Strong Survive
Today, I wish to reflect upon American women's history. We learned back in middle school about the Women's Suffrage Movement which finally gave ladies voting rights in 1920. Make no mistake that piece of legislation did not wave a magic wand making women close to men in equality! Far from it!
I remember several things women were NOT ALLOWED to do as recently as the 1950's:
1. My mother and other women of that decade could not open a Bank Account without their husband's or an adult family member's signature. That changed with the Equal Credit Opportunity Act of 1974.
2. My mother was not permitted to serve on a Jury until legalized in 1968.
3. No woman could practice law even if they had met all education and testing qualifications until 1971.
4. Birth control pills were available in the 1950's but women could not use them until legislation in 1960 and even then some States did not allow it.
5. A pregnant woman up until 1978, could not legally take a paid maternity leave.
6. Public Breast-feeding was a 'No-No' in the 1950's.
7. Fellas, those smart female high school students that you often copied from could not attend Ivy League schools until 1969.
8. Finally in 1976, women could be admitted to West Point Military Academy.
9. Women were finally permitted to run in the Boston Marathon in 1972.
10. Women finally could be in military combat in 2013.
11. In 1978, women could become an Astronaut.
I have maintained for years that men (especially old white guys) have been 'in control' of America's direction long enough; things are screwed up enough, so much so, it's time! Time to hand over the controls to women. Women just might do it better!
(Touch)
Only The Strong Survive
Wednesday, February 20, 2019
The Rated...Over & Under
I am sure you have noticed things on this trip, which are vastly overrated and conversely underrated.
We are all conditioned to develop higher opinions of someone or somethings than is deserved. Likewise, we've underestimated the value or importance of someone or something.
I offer the following unscientific and unsubstantiated lists of the overrated and underrated in my eyes:
The Overrated---
1-What others 'think.'
2-Grits
3-Tattoos
4-Franklin Graham
5-Basketball's 3-point shot
6-Expectations of others
7-Adam Sandler
8-Automatic dishwasher
9-Talapia
10-Labels i.e. Liberals, Conservatives & Evangelicals
11-Super Bowl half-time shows
12-Dick Vital
13-Sushi
14-Political Pundits
15-Rap music
16-College
17-Tomorrow's Weather Forecast
The Underrated--
1-Compliments & Encouragements
2-Potential
3-Baseball hitters who don't strike out.
4-Hope
5-Will Power
6-Teachers
7-Competent Leadership
8-Billy Graham
9-Flossing
10-Gulf Shrimp
11-Button-Down shirts
12-Toilet paper
13-Indoor Plumbing
14-Birthdays
15-Sunscreen
16-Love Songs of the 1950's
17-First Responders
18-Medicare
19-Friends
20-A Relationship with Christ
We are all conditioned to develop higher opinions of someone or somethings than is deserved. Likewise, we've underestimated the value or importance of someone or something.
I offer the following unscientific and unsubstantiated lists of the overrated and underrated in my eyes:
The Overrated---
1-What others 'think.'
2-Grits
3-Tattoos
4-Franklin Graham
5-Basketball's 3-point shot
6-Expectations of others
7-Adam Sandler
8-Automatic dishwasher
9-Talapia
10-Labels i.e. Liberals, Conservatives & Evangelicals
11-Super Bowl half-time shows
12-Dick Vital
13-Sushi
14-Political Pundits
15-Rap music
16-College
17-Tomorrow's Weather Forecast
The Underrated--
1-Compliments & Encouragements
2-Potential
3-Baseball hitters who don't strike out.
4-Hope
5-Will Power
6-Teachers
7-Competent Leadership
8-Billy Graham
9-Flossing
10-Gulf Shrimp
11-Button-Down shirts
12-Toilet paper
13-Indoor Plumbing
14-Birthdays
15-Sunscreen
16-Love Songs of the 1950's
17-First Responders
18-Medicare
19-Friends
20-A Relationship with Christ
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
My Gratitude Expressed
I wish to extend my sincere gratitude and appreciation to each of you who took a moment yesterday to send 80th birthday wishes to yours truly. I have been blessed with a rich and long journey and undoubtedly, our pathways crossed at some point. We became acquaintances and then friends. I hope we are both beneficiaries from the experiences.
My God continue to bless you and yours in the coming years.
(Touch)
That's What Friends Are For
My God continue to bless you and yours in the coming years.
(Touch)
That's What Friends Are For
Sunday, February 17, 2019
What Shall Your Hyphen Reveal?
A few weeks ago, our friend, Marie told my wife and I that she'd heard a good sermon about 'tombstones.' Seems the preacher noted that tombstones told very little of our life's story...date of birth and date of death, while the 'hyphen' between the two dates holds the bigger untold story.
My marker has one date determined: February 18, 1939- and that's right, I celebrate birthday #80 tomorrow. Just as God determined the first date without my input, I shall remain content knowing He will also determine the second date. Meanwhile, I am left to ponder and address my 'hyphen.'
May I distinguish first the difference between two words: 'luck' and 'blessings.' 'Luck' is success or failure coming to one by chance rather than one's abilities or efforts. 'Blessings' are the words or act of someone and I offer, in this instance my Creator, our God for my many blessings. I was blessed to be born into a loving and nurturing environment where parents and the extended family offered the perfect blueprint advancing the balanced ideals of caring, self-reliance and service to others. I found sport competition as a meaningful outlet expression, which ultimately defined my journey's calling from that of a participant and schooled educator to the coaching-mentor and caring consultant. I was fortunate to do all those things throughout my life; endeavors for which I held a great passion. As I have documented in my recently released book, "Angels On My Journey," I truly believed that it was all a Master's Plan that guided my 80- years.
I am most blessed to have had the love and support of a girl who became my wife these past 58-years after a seven year courtship. The added blessings of three children, their spouses, 15-grandkids and some of their spouses plus three great grandkids. On a professional-personal note, I am grateful that at a young age I came to understand that when "taking' a job, my charge was to make that job description larger and more meaningful upon the completion of my tenure. As an educator-coach, I wished to make future student-athletes benefactors of my efforts.
Did I cause anger and perhaps hurt during my journey? I'm sure I have but never with premeditated intentions. Have I been angered or hurt by others? Most certainly but on each occasion I found either personal or professional resolve in my determination and commitments.
I am aware of life's limited time and I accept my remaining days as I have all previous days...with a willingness to serve with complete faith in my Lord. I cannot imagine another man more blessed, fortunate or if you wish, luckier than I. The story defined in my hyphen causes me great humbleness, thankfulness and a desire to push ahead.
Regrets? Some.
Pleased? Somewhat.
Own the hyphen? Absolutely!
That said, The One who enters the two dates will judge all hyphens.
(Touch)
Pass Me Not
My marker has one date determined: February 18, 1939- and that's right, I celebrate birthday #80 tomorrow. Just as God determined the first date without my input, I shall remain content knowing He will also determine the second date. Meanwhile, I am left to ponder and address my 'hyphen.'
May I distinguish first the difference between two words: 'luck' and 'blessings.' 'Luck' is success or failure coming to one by chance rather than one's abilities or efforts. 'Blessings' are the words or act of someone and I offer, in this instance my Creator, our God for my many blessings. I was blessed to be born into a loving and nurturing environment where parents and the extended family offered the perfect blueprint advancing the balanced ideals of caring, self-reliance and service to others. I found sport competition as a meaningful outlet expression, which ultimately defined my journey's calling from that of a participant and schooled educator to the coaching-mentor and caring consultant. I was fortunate to do all those things throughout my life; endeavors for which I held a great passion. As I have documented in my recently released book, "Angels On My Journey," I truly believed that it was all a Master's Plan that guided my 80- years.
I am most blessed to have had the love and support of a girl who became my wife these past 58-years after a seven year courtship. The added blessings of three children, their spouses, 15-grandkids and some of their spouses plus three great grandkids. On a professional-personal note, I am grateful that at a young age I came to understand that when "taking' a job, my charge was to make that job description larger and more meaningful upon the completion of my tenure. As an educator-coach, I wished to make future student-athletes benefactors of my efforts.
Did I cause anger and perhaps hurt during my journey? I'm sure I have but never with premeditated intentions. Have I been angered or hurt by others? Most certainly but on each occasion I found either personal or professional resolve in my determination and commitments.
I am aware of life's limited time and I accept my remaining days as I have all previous days...with a willingness to serve with complete faith in my Lord. I cannot imagine another man more blessed, fortunate or if you wish, luckier than I. The story defined in my hyphen causes me great humbleness, thankfulness and a desire to push ahead.
Regrets? Some.
Pleased? Somewhat.
Own the hyphen? Absolutely!
That said, The One who enters the two dates will judge all hyphens.
(Touch)
Pass Me Not
Saturday, February 16, 2019
Emergency or Not?
The very definition of 'emergency' leaves little doubt to the question regrading prompt action.
EMERGENCY: " a serious, unexpected, and often dangerous situation requiring immediate action."
Folks, the operative word in that definition is immediate.
President Trump did not get his coveted border wall money from Congress, therefore he declared a National Emergency, which if it survives all the lawsuits and forthcoming court fights would permit
him to rob Peter to pay Paul.
I believe it noteworthy to point out that conservative talk show host Ann Coulter said, "Only National Emergency is our President is an idiot."
I would not say he is an idiot, nor would I call him a moron as did his Secretary of State, Rex Tillerson and I would stop short calling Trump an "Unhinged idiot," as did former White House Chief of Staff, John Kelly. Instead, I would question the intellect of those who continue to support a man who lies so openly as to have people believe that his National Emergency declaration was indeed an emergency. Trump said, "I didn't need to do this (emergency) but I'd rather do it much faster."
Go ahead Trump supporters and spin as you wish....but remember he's all about himself and he's a below average communicator unless he's ranting and promoting hate and bigotry rhetoric then he's in the same league with Hitler, Khomeini and Khrushchev.
EMERGENCY: " a serious, unexpected, and often dangerous situation requiring immediate action."
Folks, the operative word in that definition is immediate.
President Trump did not get his coveted border wall money from Congress, therefore he declared a National Emergency, which if it survives all the lawsuits and forthcoming court fights would permit
him to rob Peter to pay Paul.
I believe it noteworthy to point out that conservative talk show host Ann Coulter said, "Only National Emergency is our President is an idiot."
I would not say he is an idiot, nor would I call him a moron as did his Secretary of State, Rex Tillerson and I would stop short calling Trump an "Unhinged idiot," as did former White House Chief of Staff, John Kelly. Instead, I would question the intellect of those who continue to support a man who lies so openly as to have people believe that his National Emergency declaration was indeed an emergency. Trump said, "I didn't need to do this (emergency) but I'd rather do it much faster."
Go ahead Trump supporters and spin as you wish....but remember he's all about himself and he's a below average communicator unless he's ranting and promoting hate and bigotry rhetoric then he's in the same league with Hitler, Khomeini and Khrushchev.
Friday, February 15, 2019
At Least That's What I Rekalek
Every St. Patrick's Day, my wife and I hook up with friends of fifty-six years, in Assumption, Illinois. On that St. Pat's Day, we enjoy a great corn-beef & cabbage dinner and sit around reminiscing of those gone by years. As years pass, I note such get-togethers become an exercise in helping one another recall names, places and events. It is obvious our common denominator, which strengthens over time is memory depletion.
Grandpa E. V. and Mammy Bennett would often say, "As I rekalek." That's how Kentuckians say 'recollect.' Well, it seems as we get along in years, we don't 'rekalek' so good. With that in mind, I developed some written personal family recollections in a book for my children a few years back. I told the kids I wanted them to understand family events past, which might explain why their parents were a tad bit screwed-up and why they may not be 'fer' behind. 'Fer' is not a misspelling. It's another Kentuckism. Things are not far down the road but a 'fer piece' down the way. I also told my children that if they repeated these recollection stories they were not 'rekaleckin' but instead they were engaging in hearsay or as E. V. and Mammy would say, "I hear tell."
When my wife calls my name with a certain tone, 'I'm supposin' she ain't pleased and's fixin' to get in a dither 'bout somethin.'
Grandpa E. V. and Mammy Bennett would often say, "As I rekalek." That's how Kentuckians say 'recollect.' Well, it seems as we get along in years, we don't 'rekalek' so good. With that in mind, I developed some written personal family recollections in a book for my children a few years back. I told the kids I wanted them to understand family events past, which might explain why their parents were a tad bit screwed-up and why they may not be 'fer' behind. 'Fer' is not a misspelling. It's another Kentuckism. Things are not far down the road but a 'fer piece' down the way. I also told my children that if they repeated these recollection stories they were not 'rekaleckin' but instead they were engaging in hearsay or as E. V. and Mammy would say, "I hear tell."
When my wife calls my name with a certain tone, 'I'm supposin' she ain't pleased and's fixin' to get in a dither 'bout somethin.'
Thursday, February 14, 2019
Archie Is Alive Today
I have absolutely no idea if we need a 'wall' of the magnitude and length requested by President Trump. I'm not educated on the issue. All I know is what I actually 'SEE' and 'HEAR.'
I saw and heard presidential candidate Trump say, "We're going to build a great beautiful wall on the Southern border and Mexico is going to pay for it." When he frequently said that at his rally's, I knew he was just hooking the vote of bigoted white folks. I dismissed it as foolish rhetoric that ignorant angry people would gobble-up.
What has surprised me more during this 'wall debate' between Trump and the Democrats is the third players in the debate. Sean Hannity, Ann Coulter and Rush Limbaugh, (America's greatest advocates for fewer taxes and less diversity) all have the ear of the President. I could never imagine in my lifetime that radio and television political pundits would be the counsel for an American President.
In fact, I thought such voices made for comedy...like this...
(Touch)
Make America Great Again
I saw and heard presidential candidate Trump say, "We're going to build a great beautiful wall on the Southern border and Mexico is going to pay for it." When he frequently said that at his rally's, I knew he was just hooking the vote of bigoted white folks. I dismissed it as foolish rhetoric that ignorant angry people would gobble-up.
What has surprised me more during this 'wall debate' between Trump and the Democrats is the third players in the debate. Sean Hannity, Ann Coulter and Rush Limbaugh, (America's greatest advocates for fewer taxes and less diversity) all have the ear of the President. I could never imagine in my lifetime that radio and television political pundits would be the counsel for an American President.
In fact, I thought such voices made for comedy...like this...
(Touch)
Make America Great Again
Wednesday, February 13, 2019
# 6-Building Blocks For The Future
THE FEEDER APPROACH:
Earlier, I mentioned the significance of implementing a 5th & 6th Grade Badketball League. Those evaluations helped to identify young kids we wanted attending our summer Crimsons' Camps. The Crimsons' Camp numbers skyrocketed over the years and suddenly we had a feeder factory right into the Junior High School.
Also the summer months were filled with eight weeks of daily open gym from 9:00AM until Noon. Twice weekly, we were playing summer league games plus attending some weekend summer tournaments and hosting our own summer tourney extravaganza at Illinois College through the very dedicated work of assistant coach, Todd Sweatman.
OWNERSHIP PAID BIG DIVIDENDS:
I would be foolish to suggest that any of this was accomplished by one individual. I have mentioned several names of people who 'took' ownership to my ideas and plans. There were numerous assistant and junior high coaches who also 'bought-in' to program ownership: namely, Ken Hickman, John Conklin, Sam Holmes, Dick Anthony, Roger Ezard, Bob Kerr, Gary Vaughn, Ron Whitacre, Richard Smith, Jon Luckett, Janet DeOrnellas, Jan Ryan, Steve Jones, Julie Stone and our coaches wives. We were a Crimsons' Family willing to own the ups and downs of a worthy cause in behalf of young athletes.
Earlier, I mentioned the significance of implementing a 5th & 6th Grade Badketball League. Those evaluations helped to identify young kids we wanted attending our summer Crimsons' Camps. The Crimsons' Camp numbers skyrocketed over the years and suddenly we had a feeder factory right into the Junior High School.
Also the summer months were filled with eight weeks of daily open gym from 9:00AM until Noon. Twice weekly, we were playing summer league games plus attending some weekend summer tournaments and hosting our own summer tourney extravaganza at Illinois College through the very dedicated work of assistant coach, Todd Sweatman.
OWNERSHIP PAID BIG DIVIDENDS:
I would be foolish to suggest that any of this was accomplished by one individual. I have mentioned several names of people who 'took' ownership to my ideas and plans. There were numerous assistant and junior high coaches who also 'bought-in' to program ownership: namely, Ken Hickman, John Conklin, Sam Holmes, Dick Anthony, Roger Ezard, Bob Kerr, Gary Vaughn, Ron Whitacre, Richard Smith, Jon Luckett, Janet DeOrnellas, Jan Ryan, Steve Jones, Julie Stone and our coaches wives. We were a Crimsons' Family willing to own the ups and downs of a worthy cause in behalf of young athletes.
Tuesday, February 12, 2019
# 5- Ownership To Positive Causes
ADMINSTRATION COACH RELATIONSHIP-
I imagine no parent ever wishes to hear bad news about their kid from somebody other than their kid.
When there is potential 'bad news,' we always want a heads-up...no surprises! I felt the same in behalf of my parents and my bosses. As a child or teen, I kept my folks in the loop regarding my activities and behavior. The reason: Two-fold-factors>respect & fear.
As a coach, I always assumed that more often than not my school administrators wished smooth sailing and no surprises. I would also like to believe they wanted to support me and have my back. If that be true, why would I not give them a heads-up rather than allowing them to hear something about my program or my personal life at Rotary or when leaving Sunday Services? I desired to have my bosses 'in the loop' and on my side.
COACHING BEYOND THE X'S & O'S:
Few coaches give thought to the peripheral factors, which can have a positive impact on the program and the coach's own profile. As I have previously stated, I wished to re-define every position (job) I had. I believe the following program implementations accomplished both and served as incentives for current athletes.
A WEST CENTRAL ILLINOIS ALL STAR BASKETBALL GAME:
I approached two (Jerry Symons WEAI radio & Buford Green Journal/Courier) highly respected media men in Jacksonville with the following ideas and both joined in a collective effort to establish JHS and West Central sport recognition programs, which remain sport staples forty years later. The first idea was a West Central Illinois All Star basketball, game at season's end. Fifty schools in stated area comprised the selection pool for North and South Teams. The Jacksonville Bowl has serves as the All Star game venue. This event gives many high school basketball players a once in a lifetime opportunity to be called an 'All Star.' The game is sponsored and operated by WLDS/WEAI RADIO with proceeds earmarked for charities.
A JHS HALL OF FAME:
I also approached Symons and Green with the idea of a Jacksonville high school All Sports Hall of Fame Induction of worthy former JHS athletes. This Hall of Fame would do two most desirable things: 1) It would honor the unique and outstanding accomplishments of former JHS athletes and 2) It would suggest a standard of excellence for current athletes. Symons and Green along with District Superintendent Bob Crowe and assistant Superintendent, Joe Dewees joined efforts and made it happen. A beautiful Hall of Fame 'room' was constructed in the Southwest upper concourse of the JHS Bowl and houses numerous memorabilia.
WEST CENTRAL ILLINOIS ROTARY ATHLETES:
Using the same identified media coverage area referenced as West Central Illinois, I approach Jacksonville Rotary Club members, Ron Tendick and Tom Stevens about that service organization's possible interest in supporting an annual Scholar-Athletes' Awards Recognition Dinner. The idea was to establish both academic and athletic criteria of a male and female student-athlete from each of the 50-West Central Illinois high schools and fete them at the end of school. The Rotary Club stepped up and that honor program continues these past 39-years.
(Note: These ideas that I embraced were designed to honor and encourage young people while giving a positive model for future student-athletes. I am as pleased with these effort as I am with any coaching accomplishments. That said, I can tell you that those ideas would have died in my mind if not for the likes of Jerry Symons, Buford Green, Bob Crowe, Joe Dewees, Bob Gill, Ron Tendick, Tom Stevens and numerous other behind the scenes folks.)
As I preach, re-define your job description and make it larger at your departure...young people are the benefactors.
I imagine no parent ever wishes to hear bad news about their kid from somebody other than their kid.
When there is potential 'bad news,' we always want a heads-up...no surprises! I felt the same in behalf of my parents and my bosses. As a child or teen, I kept my folks in the loop regarding my activities and behavior. The reason: Two-fold-factors>respect & fear.
As a coach, I always assumed that more often than not my school administrators wished smooth sailing and no surprises. I would also like to believe they wanted to support me and have my back. If that be true, why would I not give them a heads-up rather than allowing them to hear something about my program or my personal life at Rotary or when leaving Sunday Services? I desired to have my bosses 'in the loop' and on my side.
COACHING BEYOND THE X'S & O'S:
Few coaches give thought to the peripheral factors, which can have a positive impact on the program and the coach's own profile. As I have previously stated, I wished to re-define every position (job) I had. I believe the following program implementations accomplished both and served as incentives for current athletes.
A WEST CENTRAL ILLINOIS ALL STAR BASKETBALL GAME:
I approached two (Jerry Symons WEAI radio & Buford Green Journal/Courier) highly respected media men in Jacksonville with the following ideas and both joined in a collective effort to establish JHS and West Central sport recognition programs, which remain sport staples forty years later. The first idea was a West Central Illinois All Star basketball, game at season's end. Fifty schools in stated area comprised the selection pool for North and South Teams. The Jacksonville Bowl has serves as the All Star game venue. This event gives many high school basketball players a once in a lifetime opportunity to be called an 'All Star.' The game is sponsored and operated by WLDS/WEAI RADIO with proceeds earmarked for charities.
A JHS HALL OF FAME:
I also approached Symons and Green with the idea of a Jacksonville high school All Sports Hall of Fame Induction of worthy former JHS athletes. This Hall of Fame would do two most desirable things: 1) It would honor the unique and outstanding accomplishments of former JHS athletes and 2) It would suggest a standard of excellence for current athletes. Symons and Green along with District Superintendent Bob Crowe and assistant Superintendent, Joe Dewees joined efforts and made it happen. A beautiful Hall of Fame 'room' was constructed in the Southwest upper concourse of the JHS Bowl and houses numerous memorabilia.
WEST CENTRAL ILLINOIS ROTARY ATHLETES:
Using the same identified media coverage area referenced as West Central Illinois, I approach Jacksonville Rotary Club members, Ron Tendick and Tom Stevens about that service organization's possible interest in supporting an annual Scholar-Athletes' Awards Recognition Dinner. The idea was to establish both academic and athletic criteria of a male and female student-athlete from each of the 50-West Central Illinois high schools and fete them at the end of school. The Rotary Club stepped up and that honor program continues these past 39-years.
(Note: These ideas that I embraced were designed to honor and encourage young people while giving a positive model for future student-athletes. I am as pleased with these effort as I am with any coaching accomplishments. That said, I can tell you that those ideas would have died in my mind if not for the likes of Jerry Symons, Buford Green, Bob Crowe, Joe Dewees, Bob Gill, Ron Tendick, Tom Stevens and numerous other behind the scenes folks.)
As I preach, re-define your job description and make it larger at your departure...young people are the benefactors.
Monday, February 11, 2019
# 4- Give Media Insight
BRING MEDIA ON-BOARD-
Jacksonville high school, Illinois College, MacMurray College and all of West Central Illinois prep sports gets great newspaper and radio coverage. Shall we appreciate the fact that sports' broadcaster and sports' writers love what they do; follow teams and give accounts of the contests for listeners and readers.
I felt it important that I inform the media folks a view of our pre-season approach to our offense tempo and defense mixes and why. One year, I had a team that was not going to hold their own rebounding so our approach was going to be slow tempo with 12-15 passes and then run a set or special. I sold the players on the approach and I wanted the media not to be surprised that first game, therefore I explained thoroughly my reasoning. I did not expect them to buy into the game plan but I simply wanted them conditioned. That team won a Regional Title and the first game at the Collinsville Sectional defeating East St. Louis 28-27.
Newspaper sports writers usually have a predetermined article-slant at the post game interview. I made it a point to listen carefully to the first two questions attempting to surmise that angle. Keep in mind, I was going to do my best to spin the slant I thought best served our players while giving credit to our opponent.
Side Note on Media: I was fortunate to be given the opportunity to host a Saturday Morning 'Sports Spotlite Program' on WLDS Radio for 19-years. That gig got me exposure which helped me be selected by the Illinois High School Association to serve as analyst for the large school State Tournament Finals for two seasons. More importantly, that opportunity allowed me to give a voice to all sports in West Central Illinois, bring interviews from prep coaches around the State and college coaches across the nation; all of which gave high profile to Jacksonville and our Crimsons' Basketball Program.
Jacksonville high school, Illinois College, MacMurray College and all of West Central Illinois prep sports gets great newspaper and radio coverage. Shall we appreciate the fact that sports' broadcaster and sports' writers love what they do; follow teams and give accounts of the contests for listeners and readers.
I felt it important that I inform the media folks a view of our pre-season approach to our offense tempo and defense mixes and why. One year, I had a team that was not going to hold their own rebounding so our approach was going to be slow tempo with 12-15 passes and then run a set or special. I sold the players on the approach and I wanted the media not to be surprised that first game, therefore I explained thoroughly my reasoning. I did not expect them to buy into the game plan but I simply wanted them conditioned. That team won a Regional Title and the first game at the Collinsville Sectional defeating East St. Louis 28-27.
Newspaper sports writers usually have a predetermined article-slant at the post game interview. I made it a point to listen carefully to the first two questions attempting to surmise that angle. Keep in mind, I was going to do my best to spin the slant I thought best served our players while giving credit to our opponent.
Side Note on Media: I was fortunate to be given the opportunity to host a Saturday Morning 'Sports Spotlite Program' on WLDS Radio for 19-years. That gig got me exposure which helped me be selected by the Illinois High School Association to serve as analyst for the large school State Tournament Finals for two seasons. More importantly, that opportunity allowed me to give a voice to all sports in West Central Illinois, bring interviews from prep coaches around the State and college coaches across the nation; all of which gave high profile to Jacksonville and our Crimsons' Basketball Program.
Sunday, February 10, 2019
# 3- Giving Parents a Communication Pathway
NO NEED TO ASK ANYBODY EXCEPT THE COACH:
When I played high school sports, my parents nor I ever dreamed of questioning the Coach on any decision he might make. In fact, I complained once to my parents about my high school Coach and my father scolded me saying, "If you don't like your basketball situation then do something to change it to your liking." During my first three varsity coaching years, I was in Mason City and those parents were conditioned as was my father. After those inaugural seasons, I noticed things changing. Parents were more and more inclined to complain about their sons' playing time and perhaps how he was being used. Parents would telephone the Coach and ask the Coach not tell the kid that his parent called or the parent would by-pass the Coach and telephone an administrator to voice a complaint. Of course the administrator would then ask the coach questions.
I decided that it was time to take this issue head-on. At Jacksonville, we established the following sport-family rules-of- engagement protocol: I accepted the fact that parents need and deserve answers and I wanted to be the direct contact-person to answer those question. At the beginning of each
basketball season once our freshmen, sophomore and varsity squads were established, I required parents and players to attend a pre-season meeting with all coaches in attendance. The Board of Education/District academic and behavior code policy was explained and then I outlined my specific team rules and expectations. I also explained what parents could expect from our coaches.
Regarding the issue of parents wishing specific answers to questions about 'their' son the following guideline was explained and required parental signature. If you have a question about your son's playing time or other aspects of his team membership you are to telephone your son's head coach. A meeting date and time will be setup at the coach's office. Attending that meeting WILL BE player, parent(s), head coach and assistant coach. The meeting will begin with the player explaining his concern, which caused him to have his parent request the meeting. All parties would have speaking opportunities. The player will close the meeting answering two questions: Are you satisfied with the conversation exchanges? Do you still wish to be a part of our team? I may have had one such requested meeting a year. Administrators embraced the plan because they were now 'off-the-hook.'
The reality is most players feel great pressure tomplease parents and often times casually suggest that the he 'reason' they ar not playing more is 'coach won't give me a chance,' 'Coach doesn't like me,' I out play so-&-so in practice,' yadayadayada... Now the kid is off he accountability hook and Coach is now the bad guy. Once I get stablished the aforementioned process for parents to communicate with coach, the telephone calls stopped. You understand that 'junior' did not want a conversation with parents and two coaches.
When I played high school sports, my parents nor I ever dreamed of questioning the Coach on any decision he might make. In fact, I complained once to my parents about my high school Coach and my father scolded me saying, "If you don't like your basketball situation then do something to change it to your liking." During my first three varsity coaching years, I was in Mason City and those parents were conditioned as was my father. After those inaugural seasons, I noticed things changing. Parents were more and more inclined to complain about their sons' playing time and perhaps how he was being used. Parents would telephone the Coach and ask the Coach not tell the kid that his parent called or the parent would by-pass the Coach and telephone an administrator to voice a complaint. Of course the administrator would then ask the coach questions.
I decided that it was time to take this issue head-on. At Jacksonville, we established the following sport-family rules-of- engagement protocol: I accepted the fact that parents need and deserve answers and I wanted to be the direct contact-person to answer those question. At the beginning of each
basketball season once our freshmen, sophomore and varsity squads were established, I required parents and players to attend a pre-season meeting with all coaches in attendance. The Board of Education/District academic and behavior code policy was explained and then I outlined my specific team rules and expectations. I also explained what parents could expect from our coaches.
Regarding the issue of parents wishing specific answers to questions about 'their' son the following guideline was explained and required parental signature. If you have a question about your son's playing time or other aspects of his team membership you are to telephone your son's head coach. A meeting date and time will be setup at the coach's office. Attending that meeting WILL BE player, parent(s), head coach and assistant coach. The meeting will begin with the player explaining his concern, which caused him to have his parent request the meeting. All parties would have speaking opportunities. The player will close the meeting answering two questions: Are you satisfied with the conversation exchanges? Do you still wish to be a part of our team? I may have had one such requested meeting a year. Administrators embraced the plan because they were now 'off-the-hook.'
The reality is most players feel great pressure tomplease parents and often times casually suggest that the he 'reason' they ar not playing more is 'coach won't give me a chance,' 'Coach doesn't like me,' I out play so-&-so in practice,' yadayadayada... Now the kid is off he accountability hook and Coach is now the bad guy. Once I get stablished the aforementioned process for parents to communicate with coach, the telephone calls stopped. You understand that 'junior' did not want a conversation with parents and two coaches.
Saturday, February 9, 2019
# 2- The Coaching Family
ENTIRE COACHING STAFF OWNS IT:
I have never treated any assistant coach on my staff disrespectfully nor have I requested they do anything that I wouldn't do. In fact, every assistant I've ever had, if asked will tell you that I gave them specific opportunities to put their thumb-print on our efforts whether it be scouting preparations, defense responsibilities, elementary league charges and camp involvement.
During practice those coaches understood that day's plan and were invited to participate in the execution. During games, I never failed to give all assistants an opportunity to comment about any notes they kept during the first half. They had a similar opportunity in post-game meetings. Every assistant was given ownership. My assistants all knew my expectations of players, parents and them personally. I would do anything to help any of my assistants to secure a head job he was seeking. If an assistant appeared to want my job, I'd fire him.
This coaching-family affair reached beyond head coach and assistants. I held monthly coaching meetings in our home for both high school and junior high school basketball coaches and their families. We invited junior high coaches to bring their teams to high school practice and encouraged our high school coaches to see junior high games.
Our varsity locker room was equipped with large individual and personalized lockers. The locker room was also carpeted. On away game nights, my wife prepared a pasta supper for varsity players.
HOME GAME EXTRAVAGANZA:
Home games were specifically orchestrated to be a showcase of not only the basketball program but the Pom Pom Squad, Cheerleaders and Jazz Band. At the beginning of the season, we invited the aforementioned teams' sponsors to meet and cooperate with pre-game and half-time programs. We also invited special outside groups and other school teams, which deserved recognition. This home basketball game was intended to be a big deal in the Jacksonville community.
At season end, the school district purchased State Tournament tickets and distributed to coaches and players as numbers permitted.
CRIMSONS BASKETBALL FAMILY:
When our team played great distances fro home, I invited the cheerleaders to accompany the team on the charter bus. Post-season awards ceremony was also a dual event with players and cheerleaders. A few years, we orchestrated a post-season Spring Style Show with basketball players from all levels and both varsity and underclass cheer teams modeling spring fashions including Prom formal attire.
This was directed by Mrs. Roustio with the help of coaches wives and parents from all participating groups. The Style Show was attended by 600+ and was a nice money-maker for our programs.
I have never treated any assistant coach on my staff disrespectfully nor have I requested they do anything that I wouldn't do. In fact, every assistant I've ever had, if asked will tell you that I gave them specific opportunities to put their thumb-print on our efforts whether it be scouting preparations, defense responsibilities, elementary league charges and camp involvement.
During practice those coaches understood that day's plan and were invited to participate in the execution. During games, I never failed to give all assistants an opportunity to comment about any notes they kept during the first half. They had a similar opportunity in post-game meetings. Every assistant was given ownership. My assistants all knew my expectations of players, parents and them personally. I would do anything to help any of my assistants to secure a head job he was seeking. If an assistant appeared to want my job, I'd fire him.
This coaching-family affair reached beyond head coach and assistants. I held monthly coaching meetings in our home for both high school and junior high school basketball coaches and their families. We invited junior high coaches to bring their teams to high school practice and encouraged our high school coaches to see junior high games.
Our varsity locker room was equipped with large individual and personalized lockers. The locker room was also carpeted. On away game nights, my wife prepared a pasta supper for varsity players.
HOME GAME EXTRAVAGANZA:
Home games were specifically orchestrated to be a showcase of not only the basketball program but the Pom Pom Squad, Cheerleaders and Jazz Band. At the beginning of the season, we invited the aforementioned teams' sponsors to meet and cooperate with pre-game and half-time programs. We also invited special outside groups and other school teams, which deserved recognition. This home basketball game was intended to be a big deal in the Jacksonville community.
At season end, the school district purchased State Tournament tickets and distributed to coaches and players as numbers permitted.
CRIMSONS BASKETBALL FAMILY:
When our team played great distances fro home, I invited the cheerleaders to accompany the team on the charter bus. Post-season awards ceremony was also a dual event with players and cheerleaders. A few years, we orchestrated a post-season Spring Style Show with basketball players from all levels and both varsity and underclass cheer teams modeling spring fashions including Prom formal attire.
This was directed by Mrs. Roustio with the help of coaches wives and parents from all participating groups. The Style Show was attended by 600+ and was a nice money-maker for our programs.
Friday, February 8, 2019
# 1-The Administration & Community
Today, I will post the first of six blogs on the topic of the Jacksonville Crimsons' high school boys' basketball program and my tenure from 1977-1998. The intent is to chronicle the approach taken to build upon a sport program. I coached varsity basketball for 37- years in five different communities and in every instance when my tenure concluded at each school, I walked away and never looked back to critique my successor or the state of his program. I've always had a simple professional coaching philosophy: Make the coaching position larger and more important than it was when you assumed the charge thus the players will be benefactors and consequently the program stronger. I was never interested in being 'the old coach sitting in the stands second guessing the new coach.' The only contact I've ever had with programs I once mentored is on those occasions when that current coach sought my opinions and knowledge. Period.
OWNERSHIP & THE ADMINISTRATION:
The Jacksonville district administrators asked the right questions during my job interview and gave the correct answers and evidently I did also and ultimately a basketball program building philosophy was agreed upon. That was the first and most significant 'ownership contract.' The top administrators, Bob Crowe, Fred Osborn, Joe Dewees, John Conklin and Al Rosenberger held their people accountable, with great support and no micro-management. Other ownerships to forge would be with assistant coaches, junior high coaches, elementary school principals, news media, cheer Sponsor, Pom Sponsor and pep/jazz band director. A 'how & why' these ownerships were necessary will follow in later writings.
KNOCKING DOWN BARRIERS TO TAP RESOURCES:
I did my homework regarding the socioeconomic and racial factors in the community. In 1977, the combined population of Jacksonville and South Jacksonville approached 30,000. The high school enrollment was approximately 1250. The African-American population in the city was 6 or 7 percent and there was slightly over 100 African-American students in the high school. My observations over the years, which was substantiated by research, suggested that past successful Crimsons' teams had strong contributions from Black players. If futrue teams were to be successful, it was reasonable to believe that we needed to identify talent and that talent came in all colors from all community corners. I was not of the opinion that we could identify talent through word of mouth.
During my first two summers in Jacksonville, I took my lawn chair to the Northeast section of town and specially to Minnie Barr Park where most African-Americans lived and where the youngsters played pickup basketball games. I wanted people to know me and approach me. I also wanted to evaluate young players.
I was approached by some youngsters and several adults. I could extract from those conversations many perceptions regarding race and how it related to and impacted Jacksonville sports' programs. Suffice to say that 'people's perceptions become people's realities.' I had my work cut out to destroy some myths and misconceptions and tap the potential talent.
As I watched young basketball players those two summers, I imagined a basketball court one day in the center of Jacksonville at community park. Several years later that dream came true when Jacksonville Park Superintendent, Bruce Surratt agreed to the need and found financial support from The Pilot Club to build that court. A court for all who shared a love for the game. After a 21-year coaching career at Jacksonville, my teams' were comprised of approximately 40% Black Players.
DISTRICT WIDE ELEMENTARY LEAGUE:
The obvious pathway to building any school program (academic or extra-curricular) is to get to the kids at an early age. At first the eight district elementary principals resisted having their schools open after the school day to host other schools in a grade school basketball league. After some debate the top district administrators made the final decision and the District 117 Elementary Basketball League began. This was the second greatest ownership behind that of the administrators. Consider the upside magnitude of this elementary program: Four high school coaches at four elementary sites evaluating 5th & 6th grade talent, identifying youngsters we wished to make sure attended our summer camps and get to know those families; high school varsity players refereed those games and served as role models and finally, we were introducing future high school basketball players to all socioeconomic areas of our community, which I believe develops true and sincere bonds with teammates.
OWNERSHIP & THE ADMINISTRATION:
The Jacksonville district administrators asked the right questions during my job interview and gave the correct answers and evidently I did also and ultimately a basketball program building philosophy was agreed upon. That was the first and most significant 'ownership contract.' The top administrators, Bob Crowe, Fred Osborn, Joe Dewees, John Conklin and Al Rosenberger held their people accountable, with great support and no micro-management. Other ownerships to forge would be with assistant coaches, junior high coaches, elementary school principals, news media, cheer Sponsor, Pom Sponsor and pep/jazz band director. A 'how & why' these ownerships were necessary will follow in later writings.
KNOCKING DOWN BARRIERS TO TAP RESOURCES:
I did my homework regarding the socioeconomic and racial factors in the community. In 1977, the combined population of Jacksonville and South Jacksonville approached 30,000. The high school enrollment was approximately 1250. The African-American population in the city was 6 or 7 percent and there was slightly over 100 African-American students in the high school. My observations over the years, which was substantiated by research, suggested that past successful Crimsons' teams had strong contributions from Black players. If futrue teams were to be successful, it was reasonable to believe that we needed to identify talent and that talent came in all colors from all community corners. I was not of the opinion that we could identify talent through word of mouth.
During my first two summers in Jacksonville, I took my lawn chair to the Northeast section of town and specially to Minnie Barr Park where most African-Americans lived and where the youngsters played pickup basketball games. I wanted people to know me and approach me. I also wanted to evaluate young players.
I was approached by some youngsters and several adults. I could extract from those conversations many perceptions regarding race and how it related to and impacted Jacksonville sports' programs. Suffice to say that 'people's perceptions become people's realities.' I had my work cut out to destroy some myths and misconceptions and tap the potential talent.
As I watched young basketball players those two summers, I imagined a basketball court one day in the center of Jacksonville at community park. Several years later that dream came true when Jacksonville Park Superintendent, Bruce Surratt agreed to the need and found financial support from The Pilot Club to build that court. A court for all who shared a love for the game. After a 21-year coaching career at Jacksonville, my teams' were comprised of approximately 40% Black Players.
DISTRICT WIDE ELEMENTARY LEAGUE:
The obvious pathway to building any school program (academic or extra-curricular) is to get to the kids at an early age. At first the eight district elementary principals resisted having their schools open after the school day to host other schools in a grade school basketball league. After some debate the top district administrators made the final decision and the District 117 Elementary Basketball League began. This was the second greatest ownership behind that of the administrators. Consider the upside magnitude of this elementary program: Four high school coaches at four elementary sites evaluating 5th & 6th grade talent, identifying youngsters we wished to make sure attended our summer camps and get to know those families; high school varsity players refereed those games and served as role models and finally, we were introducing future high school basketball players to all socioeconomic areas of our community, which I believe develops true and sincere bonds with teammates.
Thursday, February 7, 2019
Remake of The Ten Commadments, Coming Soon
I recall hearing many sermons and Biblical stories about Moses leading the children of Israel out of Egypt where they were enslaved. I was fascinated with the 1956, movie, The Ten Commandments depicting The Great Exodus. Didn't Chatlton Heston (Moses) do some-kinda magic with that staff he carried around. And holy Moses, wasn't Yul Brenner a stern and menacing looking Rameses dude? After filming that movie, I think Heston always thought he was really Moses till his death and Brenner became the poster boy-forerunner for America's male baldness.
There is one thing that confuses me to this day. I know for certain that 'faith-believers' still get all Goose 'bumpy' watching that movie. Here's what's confusing to me. Why the hell do the Evangelicals go along with their boy Trump's depiction of those Central Americans fleeing terrible violence in their native countries and seeking refuge in America as a "horrible invasion!" Actually, I think it reminds me of the Exodus? How do 'Church folks' not see the pain that God saw with those olive-skin Israelites?
I'm thinking if Trump gets a second term, the 'Evangelicals are going to petition for a revision of the five Books of Moses. I'd sure go to a re-make of The Ten Commandment movie starring villain Moses, played by Chuck Schumer and hero, Rameses, played by Donald Trump. The movie would make more than enough money to build that border 'wall.' Why, people would attend that movie just to see a bald headed Trump.
There is one thing that confuses me to this day. I know for certain that 'faith-believers' still get all Goose 'bumpy' watching that movie. Here's what's confusing to me. Why the hell do the Evangelicals go along with their boy Trump's depiction of those Central Americans fleeing terrible violence in their native countries and seeking refuge in America as a "horrible invasion!" Actually, I think it reminds me of the Exodus? How do 'Church folks' not see the pain that God saw with those olive-skin Israelites?
I'm thinking if Trump gets a second term, the 'Evangelicals are going to petition for a revision of the five Books of Moses. I'd sure go to a re-make of The Ten Commandment movie starring villain Moses, played by Chuck Schumer and hero, Rameses, played by Donald Trump. The movie would make more than enough money to build that border 'wall.' Why, people would attend that movie just to see a bald headed Trump.
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
Just Do It!
Supply and Demand is a fascinating economic phenomenon, eh? It is such a significant element interwoven into our Capitalistic enterprise.
Funny thing how we could easily straighten out our current illegal immigration crises and illegal drug problem if we'd simply address the matter of supply and demand. First, let's hire only white Americans to work the truck farms, construction jobs and service jobs for the same wages corporate America pays the illegal immigrants. Secondly, let's ask all Americans to stop abusing illegal drugs.
That was easy enough! End of illegal immigration problem, illegal drug problems and the corporations still make great profits.
President Trump is taking those steps. His Trump Hotels and Golf Courses recently fired dozens of undocumented workers, which have been in his employment for years. Now, all he needs to do is find white workers willing to do undesirable jobs for low wages.
Funny thing how we could easily straighten out our current illegal immigration crises and illegal drug problem if we'd simply address the matter of supply and demand. First, let's hire only white Americans to work the truck farms, construction jobs and service jobs for the same wages corporate America pays the illegal immigrants. Secondly, let's ask all Americans to stop abusing illegal drugs.
That was easy enough! End of illegal immigration problem, illegal drug problems and the corporations still make great profits.
President Trump is taking those steps. His Trump Hotels and Golf Courses recently fired dozens of undocumented workers, which have been in his employment for years. Now, all he needs to do is find white workers willing to do undesirable jobs for low wages.
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
An Opportunity Lost
I reflect on my life and have few regrets. One such anguish would be not picking the minds of grandparents and parents about particulars in their journey. Those family members have all passed therefore whatever story could be old is lost forever.
A few years ago, my brother Tom and I were visting and sharing many childhood and young adult memories of our family and our common work relationships from yesteryear. At one point, my brother, four plus years my junior said, "You do know that when one of us pass these stories become somewhat meaningless because only you and I know the players."
I suppose I am like many who become so busy with our own journey that we just didn't take much interest in the history of blood, which traveled the roads before us. Oh, I picked up bits and pieces about paternal and maternal families but I realize so much more could have been shared had I pushed the issue.
My mother's sister, Katherine was dedicated to genealogical tracing of the Bennett family and certainly some of that stirs my interests but it lacks the elements of the human experience that I find most fascinating. Let me give a for instance: Maternal grandfather, E. V. Bennett was a shy and somewhat private man, almost showing tendencies of reclusiveness. As a young boy, I spent much time with E.V. and Mammy Bennett. I suppose the fact that we lived nearby and for two years while my father was in the military (1944), E.V. and Mammy were 'hands on' helping their daughter with her two sons. I followed that old man around as if he was the 'Pied Piper.' As I grew into my teen years, I could have formulated more questions about the Bennett journey but I was too busy with 'my' things.
When my Bennett and Roustio (Frank & Rosedelle) passed their stories became second hand until all their children passed and now the particulars are lost.
I once asked Grandpa E. V. "Grandpa you're always driving Mammy to Sunday Church, Wednesday prayer meeting and other church events but why don't you go with her to church?" E.V. smiled and answered, "Why I think I've heard every sermon ever preached three or four times." I guess many viewed E.V. Bennett as a non-religious man and perhaps they were correct. However, I'll always believe that Grandpa E.V. was indeed a Man of Faith.
E. V. Liked his fiddle and I recall him often singing this one song...
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Will The Circle Be Unbroken
A few years ago, my brother Tom and I were visting and sharing many childhood and young adult memories of our family and our common work relationships from yesteryear. At one point, my brother, four plus years my junior said, "You do know that when one of us pass these stories become somewhat meaningless because only you and I know the players."
I suppose I am like many who become so busy with our own journey that we just didn't take much interest in the history of blood, which traveled the roads before us. Oh, I picked up bits and pieces about paternal and maternal families but I realize so much more could have been shared had I pushed the issue.
My mother's sister, Katherine was dedicated to genealogical tracing of the Bennett family and certainly some of that stirs my interests but it lacks the elements of the human experience that I find most fascinating. Let me give a for instance: Maternal grandfather, E. V. Bennett was a shy and somewhat private man, almost showing tendencies of reclusiveness. As a young boy, I spent much time with E.V. and Mammy Bennett. I suppose the fact that we lived nearby and for two years while my father was in the military (1944), E.V. and Mammy were 'hands on' helping their daughter with her two sons. I followed that old man around as if he was the 'Pied Piper.' As I grew into my teen years, I could have formulated more questions about the Bennett journey but I was too busy with 'my' things.
When my Bennett and Roustio (Frank & Rosedelle) passed their stories became second hand until all their children passed and now the particulars are lost.
I once asked Grandpa E. V. "Grandpa you're always driving Mammy to Sunday Church, Wednesday prayer meeting and other church events but why don't you go with her to church?" E.V. smiled and answered, "Why I think I've heard every sermon ever preached three or four times." I guess many viewed E.V. Bennett as a non-religious man and perhaps they were correct. However, I'll always believe that Grandpa E.V. was indeed a Man of Faith.
E. V. Liked his fiddle and I recall him often singing this one song...
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Will The Circle Be Unbroken
Monday, February 4, 2019
They Should Be Horse Whipped
In the opening scene of the television series, The Lone Ranger actor Clayton Moore rode his horse Silver down the hillside rather fast. Grandpa E.V. would say, "That man outta be horse whipped ridin' that horse down hill like that!"
About the time I think I've seen Americans' ultimate stupidity on display, I am treated to a 'new low.' Perhaps some bizarre behaviors are driven by idleness and boredom while other crazy stunts come about on competitive dares. Whatever the motivation some activities hold potential harm and appear down-right stupid.
Back in the 1920's and 1930's, we were entertained by flag-pole sitters and marathon dancers who attempted to establish time-records. About the same time the 'Goldfish-gulping' began. You can take it to the bank that alcohol ran a second-rail that night. Why not see how many people we can stuff into a telephone booth or Volkswagen? Hey, you rural fella's can lean from the shotgun side of a car swinging a baseball bat and see how many mailboxes you can destroy in one night. Speaking of your auto fun, let's stand atop a speeding vehicle and assume the 'surfing' position while hoping the driver doesn't make a sharp turn at 70MPH. The perverted exhibitionist thought he/she had been left out so they disrobed and ran through public venues in the buff. DON'T LOOK, ETHEL!
Today's low IQ Americans seemingly have become bored with their own body piercing and tattooing frenzy so what next? Here's a unique idea, let's spray paint our dog's testicles! And we won't use just simple spray paint but we can make an art form out of it by using different colored glitters. Great idea. Who trust us more and loves us unconditionally more than man's best friend...you got it..
Fido. Shall we mistreat him for our sick enjoyment. Gee, we could even shave the family pet and make him look as disgusting as many of our over-the-top tattooed friends.
Like the old saying..."Great minds talk about ideas; Average minds talk about events and Simple minds talk about people, while the mindless spray paint heir dogs scrotum.
Y'all are 'nuts' and you outta be horse whipped!
About the time I think I've seen Americans' ultimate stupidity on display, I am treated to a 'new low.' Perhaps some bizarre behaviors are driven by idleness and boredom while other crazy stunts come about on competitive dares. Whatever the motivation some activities hold potential harm and appear down-right stupid.
Back in the 1920's and 1930's, we were entertained by flag-pole sitters and marathon dancers who attempted to establish time-records. About the same time the 'Goldfish-gulping' began. You can take it to the bank that alcohol ran a second-rail that night. Why not see how many people we can stuff into a telephone booth or Volkswagen? Hey, you rural fella's can lean from the shotgun side of a car swinging a baseball bat and see how many mailboxes you can destroy in one night. Speaking of your auto fun, let's stand atop a speeding vehicle and assume the 'surfing' position while hoping the driver doesn't make a sharp turn at 70MPH. The perverted exhibitionist thought he/she had been left out so they disrobed and ran through public venues in the buff. DON'T LOOK, ETHEL!
Today's low IQ Americans seemingly have become bored with their own body piercing and tattooing frenzy so what next? Here's a unique idea, let's spray paint our dog's testicles! And we won't use just simple spray paint but we can make an art form out of it by using different colored glitters. Great idea. Who trust us more and loves us unconditionally more than man's best friend...you got it..
Fido. Shall we mistreat him for our sick enjoyment. Gee, we could even shave the family pet and make him look as disgusting as many of our over-the-top tattooed friends.
Like the old saying..."Great minds talk about ideas; Average minds talk about events and Simple minds talk about people, while the mindless spray paint heir dogs scrotum.
Y'all are 'nuts' and you outta be horse whipped!
Sunday, February 3, 2019
Go Figure!
I find it interesting to note the inconsistencies and the different applied moral values in the exercise of forgiveness of missteps committed by our elected leaders. I think of this in the current backdrop of the social/racial dust-up caused by the Virginia Governor, Ralph Northam who 'blackened' his face in the mid-1980's. That insensitive act caught up with him 35-years later and has many from both party's calling for the Democrat Gov's resignation.
A quick look in the rear view mirror, we recall the Supreme Court confirmation of an African-American man in spite of what many thought to be rather convincing evidence that he sexually harassed an African-American woman co-worker. And very recently another High Court confirmation came in the face of some rather disturbing sexual harassment allegations.
Then we had Congressman Anthony Weiner announce his resignation from the House when it was disclosed that he sent an online photo of his penis to a gal-pal. Weiner had to go! But President Clinton got a 'pass' when he showed a White House intern his penis. (Note: Have y'all noticed that we Puritanical Americans sure do have a fascination with the 'penis' and 'pookie.')
Very recently, our Congress stripped a fellow GOP Representative of committee assignments because of his racially insensitive white supremacist remarks. Stripped of committee assignments but not censored or pressured to resign. Of course, current President Trump's 2005, "You can grab them by the pu*#y,"comment is not a deal-breaker; nor is calling predominately Black nation's "Shit holes."
Finally, there is the bi-racial football player who is blackballed by NFL owners but the former Arizona Sheriff who broke the law by racially profiling was granted a prison pardon by President Trump. Oops, just one more: why so much anger over illegals and so little anger over corporations and farmers who ignore their illegality due to financial gain from paying them low wages?
Who commits the greatest transgression?
Folks, let's own it. It ain't only "beauty that's in the eye of the beholder;" but it seems 'forgiveness of sin is in the most hypocritical beholder's eye.' We must agree both are anchored in prejudicial attitudes.
A quick look in the rear view mirror, we recall the Supreme Court confirmation of an African-American man in spite of what many thought to be rather convincing evidence that he sexually harassed an African-American woman co-worker. And very recently another High Court confirmation came in the face of some rather disturbing sexual harassment allegations.
Then we had Congressman Anthony Weiner announce his resignation from the House when it was disclosed that he sent an online photo of his penis to a gal-pal. Weiner had to go! But President Clinton got a 'pass' when he showed a White House intern his penis. (Note: Have y'all noticed that we Puritanical Americans sure do have a fascination with the 'penis' and 'pookie.')
Very recently, our Congress stripped a fellow GOP Representative of committee assignments because of his racially insensitive white supremacist remarks. Stripped of committee assignments but not censored or pressured to resign. Of course, current President Trump's 2005, "You can grab them by the pu*#y,"comment is not a deal-breaker; nor is calling predominately Black nation's "Shit holes."
Finally, there is the bi-racial football player who is blackballed by NFL owners but the former Arizona Sheriff who broke the law by racially profiling was granted a prison pardon by President Trump. Oops, just one more: why so much anger over illegals and so little anger over corporations and farmers who ignore their illegality due to financial gain from paying them low wages?
Who commits the greatest transgression?
Folks, let's own it. It ain't only "beauty that's in the eye of the beholder;" but it seems 'forgiveness of sin is in the most hypocritical beholder's eye.' We must agree both are anchored in prejudicial attitudes.
Saturday, February 2, 2019
Walk a Mile In Another's Moccasins
Not that the 53rd NFL Super Bowl needs another sidebar story for viewers to debate, it nonetheless appears the pre-game and half-time entertainment offers one. There is a dust up within the African-American community regarding Atlanta Native Gladys Knight's National Anthem performance. The fuss pits the 74-year for legendary singer, Knight against 31-year old, Colin Kaepernick's First Amendment expression as he refuses to stand for the National Anthem before NFL games in an effort to bring attention to what he believes is excessive use of force by policemen perpetrated on African-Americans.
Evidently, some folks feel that Knight is 'selling-out' on her Black brothers and sisters' fight for social justice by accepting the NFL's invitation to perform.
Not that my voice is meaningful, I still will offer the following: I profoundly defend Kaepernick's First Amendment expression rights and any other NFL players who might join in kneeling during the National Anthem. That said, I also praise and give thanks to military vets who made sacrifices defending our Nation, its symbolic flag and peoples' rights to sit during the Anthem.
I don't know a lot about the personal lives of Kaepernick and Knight. I do recall that Knight was pregnant at age 16, had three children and four marriages. I also know that her adult son who served as her manager suddenly died of a massive heart attack and Knight herself entered a rehab center for a gambling addiction. Suffice to say, the iconic singer faced many emotional hurdles during her journey. Kaepernick on the other hand is the child of a Caucasian mother and African-American father. He was a highly touted high school and college educated athlete who signed a multi-million dollar NFL contract.
It is fair to conclude that these two individuals have experienced different journeys. What I find interesting is those outside those two journeys have the audacity to critique and criticize choices each has made regarding personal-life decisions.
Now, I understand that this subject can engender high octane emotions and I welcome any comments on the blog. However, please don't be foolish and attempt taking me to the wood shed suggesting something so stupid as to point out that I am unaware of the 'Black experience.' Should you go there, you disclose a failure to know me and my journey.
My contention is a simple straightforward one: Don't expect Knight to make her personal career decisions based on Kaepernick's personal career decisions.
Finally, I hope one day to see Kaepernick throw another NFL touchdown pass and in the meantime, I'll enjoy the singing voice of Gladys Knight honoring our country with her rendition of the National Anthem. Certainly, I pray that our leaders and concerned citizens continue to pressure all parties to investigate and resolve the issue of police and citizenry engagement.
Oh, before closing there is one other thing I should tell you about Gladys Knight and Colin Kaepernick...they each have a net worth of $20 million.
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Walk a Mile in My Shoes
Evidently, some folks feel that Knight is 'selling-out' on her Black brothers and sisters' fight for social justice by accepting the NFL's invitation to perform.
Not that my voice is meaningful, I still will offer the following: I profoundly defend Kaepernick's First Amendment expression rights and any other NFL players who might join in kneeling during the National Anthem. That said, I also praise and give thanks to military vets who made sacrifices defending our Nation, its symbolic flag and peoples' rights to sit during the Anthem.
I don't know a lot about the personal lives of Kaepernick and Knight. I do recall that Knight was pregnant at age 16, had three children and four marriages. I also know that her adult son who served as her manager suddenly died of a massive heart attack and Knight herself entered a rehab center for a gambling addiction. Suffice to say, the iconic singer faced many emotional hurdles during her journey. Kaepernick on the other hand is the child of a Caucasian mother and African-American father. He was a highly touted high school and college educated athlete who signed a multi-million dollar NFL contract.
It is fair to conclude that these two individuals have experienced different journeys. What I find interesting is those outside those two journeys have the audacity to critique and criticize choices each has made regarding personal-life decisions.
Now, I understand that this subject can engender high octane emotions and I welcome any comments on the blog. However, please don't be foolish and attempt taking me to the wood shed suggesting something so stupid as to point out that I am unaware of the 'Black experience.' Should you go there, you disclose a failure to know me and my journey.
My contention is a simple straightforward one: Don't expect Knight to make her personal career decisions based on Kaepernick's personal career decisions.
Finally, I hope one day to see Kaepernick throw another NFL touchdown pass and in the meantime, I'll enjoy the singing voice of Gladys Knight honoring our country with her rendition of the National Anthem. Certainly, I pray that our leaders and concerned citizens continue to pressure all parties to investigate and resolve the issue of police and citizenry engagement.
Oh, before closing there is one other thing I should tell you about Gladys Knight and Colin Kaepernick...they each have a net worth of $20 million.
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Walk a Mile in My Shoes
Friday, February 1, 2019
Got To Make The Best Of a Bad Situation
Exciting times? Fearful times? Challenging times? Sad times? Confusing times? I suppose your choice or perspective is dependent on a preconceived notion, your open mindedness or lack thereof, political persuasions or wishful thinking. What times you ask? This time in America's history when its 'democracy' is being tested perhaps more so than any other time in its existence.
The Constitution was adopted in 1788, and became the blueprint for 'democracy.' Make no mistake this democracy has been tested previously with severe economic issues, threats of States' successions, slavery, racial intolerance, foreign wars, nuclear proliferation, problematic cold wars, political assassinations, a Presidential resignation and civil discourse of many kinds. Several of the aforementioned disputes and disruptions continue in 'real-time' while others lay dormant but ready to be awakened.
Perhaps the greatest single factor that creates the the most uncertainty and challenge to our democracy is the cyber-world, which offers a precarious negative tool for the disruption and distortion of TRUTH. The old adage, "Don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see," falls short when we acknowledge the 'false' narratives driven by social media and Internet cyber feedings. These days, we would be wise to doubt the 'seen' as well as the 'unseen.'
A nation's people are told that their free and open political elections no longer result in honest tabulations and consequently those people become doubtful, angry and divided. The three branches of government, once heralded are no longer representative for their power balance but have become fertile grounds for stated and open distrust for all the world to see. Our President does not believe his intelligence agencies but tends to believe contradictions from foreign leaders and our nation's constituents argue and become more divided. Amidst all these issues we find language vulgarity more common in our discourse as racial, ethnic and religious intolerance basks in open-boldness.
Each day, we must fight our own demons of cynicism, anger and depression. We must tread the waters of hope with confidence that the storm will pass and an even stronger nation emerges.
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Bad Situation
The Constitution was adopted in 1788, and became the blueprint for 'democracy.' Make no mistake this democracy has been tested previously with severe economic issues, threats of States' successions, slavery, racial intolerance, foreign wars, nuclear proliferation, problematic cold wars, political assassinations, a Presidential resignation and civil discourse of many kinds. Several of the aforementioned disputes and disruptions continue in 'real-time' while others lay dormant but ready to be awakened.
Perhaps the greatest single factor that creates the the most uncertainty and challenge to our democracy is the cyber-world, which offers a precarious negative tool for the disruption and distortion of TRUTH. The old adage, "Don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see," falls short when we acknowledge the 'false' narratives driven by social media and Internet cyber feedings. These days, we would be wise to doubt the 'seen' as well as the 'unseen.'
A nation's people are told that their free and open political elections no longer result in honest tabulations and consequently those people become doubtful, angry and divided. The three branches of government, once heralded are no longer representative for their power balance but have become fertile grounds for stated and open distrust for all the world to see. Our President does not believe his intelligence agencies but tends to believe contradictions from foreign leaders and our nation's constituents argue and become more divided. Amidst all these issues we find language vulgarity more common in our discourse as racial, ethnic and religious intolerance basks in open-boldness.
Each day, we must fight our own demons of cynicism, anger and depression. We must tread the waters of hope with confidence that the storm will pass and an even stronger nation emerges.
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Bad Situation
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