Buried deep in my morning newspaper was an article entitled, 'What Would It Take to Make You Happy?' The piece included opinions centered around various survey findings. Perhaps not surprising was the top answer to the question: MONEY.
The Columnist reported three conclusions. Certainly, money in the hands of those in poverty would surely make them happy, however others did not necessarily find joy with more money or more material stuff. Finally, the writer referenced the decade of the 1950's as a barometer for happiness. Since the 50's hits smack dab in my teenage years, I wondered what was so different then and now. I share my thoughts not as an indictment of others but simply as a profile in time.
In the 1950's...
(1) Most mothers did not work outside the home...thus an after school comfort zone for children did much to create a parent bond with interaction and behavior monitoring.
(2) One black & white television with only three channel choices did not command our attention.
(3) Family meals eaten together for the most part.
(4) Family board games bonded children and parents as did those summertime backyard games.
(5) There were no electronic media devices to cause social disconnect.
(6) Most families had one car only...the family car, which a teen requested for 'special' occasions.
(7) There was a strong 'neighborhood network' due to folks being outside interacting with other neighbors. A 'village' was watching the youth.
Finally, may I close out this blog by sharing with you that I have preached to my children and grandchildren this thought: The happiest people in the world are the those who pursue a work passion and find ways to serve others during their journey.
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