Recently, a petition with nearly 42,000 signatures circulated requesting open carry (guns) at the Republican convention...(I would suspect at the delight of the NRA and Southern Bubba's)
Please do yourself Justice by pausing for a moment. Push away from your internet device, close your eyes and reflect on the bizarre crap that has ocurred at Donald Trump's rallies. Then open your eyes and re-read the first sentence of my blog....That's All Folks!
Thursday, March 31, 2016
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
Saying a Goodbye
It was a Saturday morning early this past December when I slipped into the WLDS/WEAI Radio Station (Jacksonville, IL.) to join in a sports' conversation with long time Jacksonville friends Gary Scott, Buford Green and Ron Tendick. I first met these gentlemen back in 1977, when I began a 21-year tenure as Jacksonville high school's basketball coach and athletic director.
WLDS Radio would be another venue providing me employment opportunities. The late Jerry Symons, general manager of the station and later co-owner would offer me a 30-minute Saturday morning program, which would become known as Mel Roustio's Sport Spotlight. For nineteen years, I'd interview sport personalities, coaches and athletes locally, State wide and Nation wide. That very gig opened doors with the IHSA where I would serve as its basketball analyst for the State Finals. The last four years living in Jacksoville, I would also host a daily four hour morning DJ Show.
Jerry Symons, Ron Tendick, who was the news director and reporter Gary Scott combined their efforts to make sure yours truly would succeed...I am most grateful.
Symons would one day sell the radio station to Scott and Mark Whalen, Tendick would become the long time Mayor of Jacksonville and Buford Green who had been sports' editor for the Jacksonville Journal Courier would continue with free lance writing. I remember my first radio show. Just before air time Ron Tendick stood on a studio chair and place colored tape on a large wall clock face indicating when I should 'take' commercial breaks. What-a-guy!
A few years ago, Jerry Symons died after a brief illness. This past Easter Sunday, Ron Tendick lost his battle with cancer. I know these losses are devastating for family and loved ones. I, too, feel a terrible void.
These deaths shake the very foundations of the many left behind. These goodbye moments should underscore the importance of embracing time we have and people with whom we can share.
I will attend Ron Tendick's funeral this Thursday morning. I will recall many conversations and moments of laughter. I am blessed to have had my life intertwine with Ron and the others I have mentioned this day.
WLDS Radio would be another venue providing me employment opportunities. The late Jerry Symons, general manager of the station and later co-owner would offer me a 30-minute Saturday morning program, which would become known as Mel Roustio's Sport Spotlight. For nineteen years, I'd interview sport personalities, coaches and athletes locally, State wide and Nation wide. That very gig opened doors with the IHSA where I would serve as its basketball analyst for the State Finals. The last four years living in Jacksoville, I would also host a daily four hour morning DJ Show.
Jerry Symons, Ron Tendick, who was the news director and reporter Gary Scott combined their efforts to make sure yours truly would succeed...I am most grateful.
Symons would one day sell the radio station to Scott and Mark Whalen, Tendick would become the long time Mayor of Jacksonville and Buford Green who had been sports' editor for the Jacksonville Journal Courier would continue with free lance writing. I remember my first radio show. Just before air time Ron Tendick stood on a studio chair and place colored tape on a large wall clock face indicating when I should 'take' commercial breaks. What-a-guy!
A few years ago, Jerry Symons died after a brief illness. This past Easter Sunday, Ron Tendick lost his battle with cancer. I know these losses are devastating for family and loved ones. I, too, feel a terrible void.
These deaths shake the very foundations of the many left behind. These goodbye moments should underscore the importance of embracing time we have and people with whom we can share.
I will attend Ron Tendick's funeral this Thursday morning. I will recall many conversations and moments of laughter. I am blessed to have had my life intertwine with Ron and the others I have mentioned this day.
Tuesday, March 29, 2016
A Juiced Bird, Indeed !
Once upon a time, as a kid, I loved fried chicken. I recall my pre-teen years having Sunday fried chicken dinner at Mammy Bennett's house. The day before, Grandpa E. V. Bennett picked from the chicken coop three fryers and butchered them in the backyard. E.V. placed the bird's head atop a tree stump and with one whack of his sharpened hatchet preceded the family dog chasing after a flopping-headless bird. I sure loved Mammy's fried chicken.
Nonetheless, I always knew that those chickens were nasty. How nasty? You cannot find a nastier creature that we humans consume as food. The chicken is dirty and will eat anything and everything, even the sores on a dying bird in the coop. In recent years, I noticed store-bought chickens getting bigger than those birds in Mammy's frying pan. One day, I was shocked to note the size of four chicken breasts my wife purchased at Sam's Club. Holy crap, based on the breast size each of those birds would out weigh my neighbor's six year-old German Shepard. My chicken raising internet curiosity reading caused me to lose my apitite for KFC.
Recently, I found some Perdue Chicken that 'looks and taste normal,' therefore I am back to eating Perdue Chicken. While at Kroger's, I did pick up a frozen full-size chicken just to examine it. That sucker weighed 22 pounds. I swear, you could've put a baseball uniform on that bird and placed him in the batting order between Barry Bonds and Sammy Sosa...steroids? You THINK?!
Nonetheless, I always knew that those chickens were nasty. How nasty? You cannot find a nastier creature that we humans consume as food. The chicken is dirty and will eat anything and everything, even the sores on a dying bird in the coop. In recent years, I noticed store-bought chickens getting bigger than those birds in Mammy's frying pan. One day, I was shocked to note the size of four chicken breasts my wife purchased at Sam's Club. Holy crap, based on the breast size each of those birds would out weigh my neighbor's six year-old German Shepard. My chicken raising internet curiosity reading caused me to lose my apitite for KFC.
Recently, I found some Perdue Chicken that 'looks and taste normal,' therefore I am back to eating Perdue Chicken. While at Kroger's, I did pick up a frozen full-size chicken just to examine it. That sucker weighed 22 pounds. I swear, you could've put a baseball uniform on that bird and placed him in the batting order between Barry Bonds and Sammy Sosa...steroids? You THINK?!
Monday, March 28, 2016
Stop by And Visit Sometime
I was disappointed to learn last week that NFL Commissioner, Roger Goodell and NFL team owners opted to met in Boca Rotan, Florida instead of St. Louis, Missouri. After all that group left a pile of crap near the St. Louis Arc that they should clean up. However, I suspect those folks believe that St. Louis would not be a safe place for them so close on the heels of their decision to pretend St. Louis had a real chance to keep the Rams' franchise allowing St. Louis to spend millions against all odds. The NFL ignored St. Louis and voted to move the St. Louis 'Rams' back to Los Angeles. Perhaps the Commissioner and owners feel uneasy about lying to a bunch of simple/unsophisticated Midwesterners.
If in the future the NFL would like to hold its annual team-owners meeting in the Midwest, may I offer an alternate site just across the river from St. Louis. My hometown, East St. Louis can usually accommodate, on short notice, large groups. The NFL brass would find the East St. Louis Casino Queen Hotel to offer all the necessary amenities. The nearby East St. Louis restaraunt's usually have immediate available seating, especially the Four Corners Bar located on Old Missouri Avenue.
For late night fun the close in town of Sauget, Illinois offers neat and exotic entertainment. For directions to the latter, check with your L A Rams players.
If in the future the NFL would like to hold its annual team-owners meeting in the Midwest, may I offer an alternate site just across the river from St. Louis. My hometown, East St. Louis can usually accommodate, on short notice, large groups. The NFL brass would find the East St. Louis Casino Queen Hotel to offer all the necessary amenities. The nearby East St. Louis restaraunt's usually have immediate available seating, especially the Four Corners Bar located on Old Missouri Avenue.
For late night fun the close in town of Sauget, Illinois offers neat and exotic entertainment. For directions to the latter, check with your L A Rams players.
Friday, March 25, 2016
He Lives!
I should explain some thing and thereby dispel a growing misconception amongst some of my faithful blog readers. Before that explanation, let me state unequivocally that I truly appreciate your willingness to read my blog and I am delighted with your comments whether pro or con. I really take nothing said personally. However, when some readers reference, 'you (Mel) and your left-wing friends...blah...blah...blah,' I must tell you with absolute certainty, most of the Roustio clan members are Republicans and I love them dearly. Most of my friends are also 'right-wingers.' The fact is I likely have more friends on the 'right' than the 'left.'
In the future, when responding to my blogs, please respect my family and friends (most of whom are Republicans, by not putting them in my political camp suggesting that we are all afflicted with some communicable malady. Some of these 'friends' would be offended and mad at you...but not me. I am comfortable with what you feel and believe and who you are...and as for me, I'm delighted with me.
Have a blessed Easter...John 3:16...no one loves you more!
In the future, when responding to my blogs, please respect my family and friends (most of whom are Republicans, by not putting them in my political camp suggesting that we are all afflicted with some communicable malady. Some of these 'friends' would be offended and mad at you...but not me. I am comfortable with what you feel and believe and who you are...and as for me, I'm delighted with me.
Have a blessed Easter...John 3:16...no one loves you more!
Thursday, March 24, 2016
Supermarket Tabloid Campaigning
I have heard many Ted Cruz supporters hail their candidate as brilliant, principled and morally unyielding. Those backers are quick to point out that 'their' guy has argued nine (9) cases before the Supreme Court. Evidently the latter experience is suppose to separate Cruz from all other Presidential hopefuls.
If Cruz is such a pure constitutionalists then he should know better than to propose law enforcement officers 'single out' a religious group of people (Muslims) for surveillance patrols. That act would simply be unconstitutional.
Cruz can 'taste' the White House cooking. He wants the job so badly that he flushes his morally unyielding principled beliefs down the toilet and panders to the unintelligent, angry and vindictive will of the masses who cry out, 'crucify them!'
Donald Trump is ill-informed regarding our constitution and therefore spews verbal poppycock. Ted Cruz knows better but but is willing to be a 'pimp' if it will move him into the Oval Office.
Gee folks, the two GOP front runners are now talking about one anothers' wife and threatening each other with salacious stories...what a wonderfully delightful Presidential style discourse.
If Cruz is such a pure constitutionalists then he should know better than to propose law enforcement officers 'single out' a religious group of people (Muslims) for surveillance patrols. That act would simply be unconstitutional.
Cruz can 'taste' the White House cooking. He wants the job so badly that he flushes his morally unyielding principled beliefs down the toilet and panders to the unintelligent, angry and vindictive will of the masses who cry out, 'crucify them!'
Donald Trump is ill-informed regarding our constitution and therefore spews verbal poppycock. Ted Cruz knows better but but is willing to be a 'pimp' if it will move him into the Oval Office.
Gee folks, the two GOP front runners are now talking about one anothers' wife and threatening each other with salacious stories...what a wonderfully delightful Presidential style discourse.
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
T-Shirts, Pills and Fish
Only in America. Bernie is angry at the Wall Street guys, Hillary is mad at those folks holding women back, Trump is furious with dark-skinned people, Kasich is upset with debate moderators, who ignore him and Ted Cruz is pissed at everyone and every thing. Personally, I'd like to find a politician who sympathizes with me and embraces my anger.
I just spent two months in the Florida Panhandle. My diet for that time was primarily fish (Shrimp, Grouper, Flounder, Scallops and Red Fish) along with a little chicken and pork. All that fish was fresh because it was caught in the nearby gulf. I went to Decatur's Sam's Club yesterday and the Shrimp, Scallops and Tilapia was from Honduras, Thailand, Peru, China and other Asian countries where those fish-farm-ponds are side-by-side to the slightly elevated outhouses. Y'all know the basic principles of liquid flow?
Most of the 50/50 pro-team-logo T-Shirts that I purchase from the local sporting goods stores at inflated prices of $20.00 + are made in Mexican villages by seamstresses who work 10 hour-days at $2.00 per hour.
Last week, I had a six month med-check with my family Doctor. He then called in my five scripts. When I picked up my first 'round' I noticed all the pills are now white and similar in size...not so consumer friendly. When I inquired about the drug manufacturing site, the Pharmacist told me that my drugs are now produced in other countries.
It is 803 miles from Decatur, IL. to Destin, FL. and nearly 9,000 miles from Thailand to Decatur. It is not unreasonable to ask , why can't I get Gulf of Mexico shrimp for dinner tonight?
Can I get a 'frown?'
I just spent two months in the Florida Panhandle. My diet for that time was primarily fish (Shrimp, Grouper, Flounder, Scallops and Red Fish) along with a little chicken and pork. All that fish was fresh because it was caught in the nearby gulf. I went to Decatur's Sam's Club yesterday and the Shrimp, Scallops and Tilapia was from Honduras, Thailand, Peru, China and other Asian countries where those fish-farm-ponds are side-by-side to the slightly elevated outhouses. Y'all know the basic principles of liquid flow?
Most of the 50/50 pro-team-logo T-Shirts that I purchase from the local sporting goods stores at inflated prices of $20.00 + are made in Mexican villages by seamstresses who work 10 hour-days at $2.00 per hour.
Last week, I had a six month med-check with my family Doctor. He then called in my five scripts. When I picked up my first 'round' I noticed all the pills are now white and similar in size...not so consumer friendly. When I inquired about the drug manufacturing site, the Pharmacist told me that my drugs are now produced in other countries.
It is 803 miles from Decatur, IL. to Destin, FL. and nearly 9,000 miles from Thailand to Decatur. It is not unreasonable to ask , why can't I get Gulf of Mexico shrimp for dinner tonight?
Can I get a 'frown?'
Tuesday, March 22, 2016
Give Me a Break !
A few days ago, the St. Louis Baseball Cadinals' General Manager, John Mozeliak suggested, after announcing the one year 1.5 million dollars contract signing of recently released Mets' shortstop Rueben Tejada that his addition to the club gives depth to the shortstop position and addresses the 'fatigue factor...'
'Fatigue Factor?' Is this one of those 'NEW' Major League Baseball sabermetrics statistical analysis?
I began following professional baseball in 1946. I remember teams traveling by train from city to city. Today, teams take charter flights. Back in the day, players had hotel roommates. Today, teams stay in 5-star hotels and most players have their own hotel room. The 1950 players' clubhouse and dugouts were dingy and without perks. Today, those clubhouses are carpeted with first class food amenities and state-of-the-art training room needs and video rooms. Yesteryears' Playing fields were suspect. Many were not manicured very well, which made fielding problematic and injuries likely. Today, major league fields are immaculate.
Players unions, today protect players better than any labor organization in America. Once upon a time, major league teams played a few 'double-headers' every year. Today that scenario occurs only near the season's end to insure rainout games are completed.
The top baseball salary in 1950 was $50,000.00. Today's AVERAGE baseball salary is 4 million.
Please spare me the 'fatigue factor' comment. Those baseball Prima Donnas should enter the blue-collar labor market and become familiar with fatigue.
'Fatigue Factor?' Is this one of those 'NEW' Major League Baseball sabermetrics statistical analysis?
I began following professional baseball in 1946. I remember teams traveling by train from city to city. Today, teams take charter flights. Back in the day, players had hotel roommates. Today, teams stay in 5-star hotels and most players have their own hotel room. The 1950 players' clubhouse and dugouts were dingy and without perks. Today, those clubhouses are carpeted with first class food amenities and state-of-the-art training room needs and video rooms. Yesteryears' Playing fields were suspect. Many were not manicured very well, which made fielding problematic and injuries likely. Today, major league fields are immaculate.
Players unions, today protect players better than any labor organization in America. Once upon a time, major league teams played a few 'double-headers' every year. Today that scenario occurs only near the season's end to insure rainout games are completed.
The top baseball salary in 1950 was $50,000.00. Today's AVERAGE baseball salary is 4 million.
Please spare me the 'fatigue factor' comment. Those baseball Prima Donnas should enter the blue-collar labor market and become familiar with fatigue.
Monday, March 21, 2016
School starts @ 8 AM
Adam LaRoche has been a Major League Baseball player for the past 12 seasons. During those years he sported a career batting average of .260 and amassed a net worth of 35 million dollars. This year the 36-year old first baseman was on schedule to receive 12 million dollars playing for the Chicago White Sox.
LaRoche, like other MLB players enjoys bringing his son to his work place. LaRoche feels 'entitled' to bring his 14 year old son to the park every day. The White Sox asked LaRoche to 'dial-it-back' a bit and not bring the kid every day. LaRoche either got his feelings hurt or got mad therefore he quit the team, which means he and his kid won't be at the park any more.
Many other overpaid and excessively pampered MLB players have come to LaRoche's defense saying he is a great father. Perhaps he is a terrific dad. LaRoche did say that he was not big on his kid being in school because he thought his son could learn more valuable lessons in a MLB clubhouse. (Now there's a discouraging thought).
What year did the rules change? The 'rule' that said employees were no longer subjected to the employers' guidelines and expectations in the work place.???
By the way, last year LaRoche hit a whopping .207. My theory is he is 'fried' and knows he can no longer catch up with that 96 mile fast ball.
Do you realize how slow the work-zone speed limit would likely be if all those guys leaning on shovels along highway construction sites have their kid(s) with them?
LaRoche, like other MLB players enjoys bringing his son to his work place. LaRoche feels 'entitled' to bring his 14 year old son to the park every day. The White Sox asked LaRoche to 'dial-it-back' a bit and not bring the kid every day. LaRoche either got his feelings hurt or got mad therefore he quit the team, which means he and his kid won't be at the park any more.
Many other overpaid and excessively pampered MLB players have come to LaRoche's defense saying he is a great father. Perhaps he is a terrific dad. LaRoche did say that he was not big on his kid being in school because he thought his son could learn more valuable lessons in a MLB clubhouse. (Now there's a discouraging thought).
What year did the rules change? The 'rule' that said employees were no longer subjected to the employers' guidelines and expectations in the work place.???
By the way, last year LaRoche hit a whopping .207. My theory is he is 'fried' and knows he can no longer catch up with that 96 mile fast ball.
Do you realize how slow the work-zone speed limit would likely be if all those guys leaning on shovels along highway construction sites have their kid(s) with them?
Friday, March 18, 2016
Indefensible & Narrow-Minded Logic
Senate Majority Leader, Mitch McConnell offers flawed logic when explains his reasons for not holding a hearing and voting on President Obama's nomination for the Supreme Court vacancy. The Republican Senator states that the American peoples' wishes should be considered as they vote for the next President this November. Therefore, we must conclude that McConnell thinks the second term of a 'duly' elected Democrat- President Obama is only three years. The so-called 'mandate' given to him is suddenly invalid.
Secondly, McConnell appears to be hedging a bet, which is a long shot. If he believes his discombobulated Republican Party is going to occupy the White House, House of Representatives and the Senate come January 20, 2017, that old boy is glue-sniffing.
Secondly, McConnell appears to be hedging a bet, which is a long shot. If he believes his discombobulated Republican Party is going to occupy the White House, House of Representatives and the Senate come January 20, 2017, that old boy is glue-sniffing.
Thursday, March 17, 2016
Being Played
'Subliminal' = affecting someone's mind without their being aware of it.' All of us have been and continue to be motivated to action based on messages received subconsciously...messages coming at us repeatedly below normal levels of sensation. We purchase goods because of these messages, we vote for politicians and on issues due to these clever communications and we choose entertainment events because of such subtle hints.
Many Donald Trump supporters refuse to accept the possibility that Trump's comments motivate violence. Trump's statements about protesters, "In the old days that guy would be carried out on a stretcher," or "I'd like to punch him in the face," has (no) impact on those actions carried out by his faithful through these subliminal messages.
Just yesterday, Mr. Trump said, " There could be riots if I am denied the Republican nomination at a contested convention." Perhaps that is a subliminal message. Here's a message, which is not subliminal: Donald Trump is a sick self-centered extremely narcissistic dangerous individual.
Many Donald Trump supporters refuse to accept the possibility that Trump's comments motivate violence. Trump's statements about protesters, "In the old days that guy would be carried out on a stretcher," or "I'd like to punch him in the face," has (no) impact on those actions carried out by his faithful through these subliminal messages.
Just yesterday, Mr. Trump said, " There could be riots if I am denied the Republican nomination at a contested convention." Perhaps that is a subliminal message. Here's a message, which is not subliminal: Donald Trump is a sick self-centered extremely narcissistic dangerous individual.
Wednesday, March 16, 2016
Easier to Vote If You're Simple-Minded
One day before the Illinois Presidential primary election, a voting age granddaughter shared with me that she was so frustrated with the Presidential choices that she was contemplating NOT voting. Adding to her vote-reluctance is her perception that each candidate offers a platform-plank, which flies in the face of her beliefs.
This young woman is not your atypical bleeding-heart college liberal. She is a strong-minded academic student trying to sort through a myriad of governing philosophies and the accompanying program offerings. Her consternation and studying of issue-positions suggests that she believes there is a 'correct' answer to our vote-choice as if the process is similar to a history class final exam multiple choice question.
The American Presidential vote has never offered a 'perfect' answer. Some elections require the voter to squeeze one nostril when pulling the lever while other years beg a strong two-nostril squeeze! This is undoubtedly a two-nostril year. If you doubt this, you are one voter comfortable in your state-of-denial and no matter what others might explain to you it will not 'trump' your already made-up-mind.
My dear granddaughter: Welcome to the Reality of 'The American Dream.'
This young woman is not your atypical bleeding-heart college liberal. She is a strong-minded academic student trying to sort through a myriad of governing philosophies and the accompanying program offerings. Her consternation and studying of issue-positions suggests that she believes there is a 'correct' answer to our vote-choice as if the process is similar to a history class final exam multiple choice question.
The American Presidential vote has never offered a 'perfect' answer. Some elections require the voter to squeeze one nostril when pulling the lever while other years beg a strong two-nostril squeeze! This is undoubtedly a two-nostril year. If you doubt this, you are one voter comfortable in your state-of-denial and no matter what others might explain to you it will not 'trump' your already made-up-mind.
My dear granddaughter: Welcome to the Reality of 'The American Dream.'
Tuesday, March 15, 2016
The Stakes Are Too High
I have maintained since the inception of 24/7 television-cable news programming that it is bad for American consumption. More is not better. The fact that 'negative' in the form of salaciousness sells, also tends to fester in a society's mind resulting in feelings of anger or doom and gloom.
In recent months during this election campaign, we have watched over-the-top cable news coverage factor into the hostile and divisive American climate. News networks have followed Donald Trump's campaign-comments non-stop. Those networks anticipated Trump would implode early in the process but he did not. Along this journey, Trump received much more free press than other candidates.
All this coverage becomes a television ratings bonanza because it plugs into the ambulance chasing mentality of the less than intelligent segment of our people. Some folks get their jollies at dog fights, ultimate fighting and professional wrestling. They are hoping for blood.
American politics should be better than this.
In recent months during this election campaign, we have watched over-the-top cable news coverage factor into the hostile and divisive American climate. News networks have followed Donald Trump's campaign-comments non-stop. Those networks anticipated Trump would implode early in the process but he did not. Along this journey, Trump received much more free press than other candidates.
All this coverage becomes a television ratings bonanza because it plugs into the ambulance chasing mentality of the less than intelligent segment of our people. Some folks get their jollies at dog fights, ultimate fighting and professional wrestling. They are hoping for blood.
American politics should be better than this.
Monday, March 14, 2016
Enjoy the Moment
It's always youth sports time. Year around sport opportunities for kids abound. I wish to speak to parents and mentors of youngsters involved in sports. Those parents and youth coaches hold the 'key' to the likelihood of a youngster's good or bad experience. Much is pontificated regarding the benefits and woes of youth sport participation. I don't wish to re-chew a lot of that hash but I do want to make a couple of points.
Please impress upon the young sport enthusiast that winning and losing does not define self-worth as a person. It is true that we all gain self-esteem through positive outcomes, however those moments can never make one more or less 'worthy' as a person. Find enjoyment in that which you do.
I would encourage the young athlete to embrace an attitude of 'next moment' focus. This means one should not waste time or mental energies thinking about what just happened but focus on the next possible scenario. Being the best you can be should always be the objective in sports' play as well as life's journey.
Remind the youth of the fleeting experiences. Embrace the time.
Please impress upon the young sport enthusiast that winning and losing does not define self-worth as a person. It is true that we all gain self-esteem through positive outcomes, however those moments can never make one more or less 'worthy' as a person. Find enjoyment in that which you do.
I would encourage the young athlete to embrace an attitude of 'next moment' focus. This means one should not waste time or mental energies thinking about what just happened but focus on the next possible scenario. Being the best you can be should always be the objective in sports' play as well as life's journey.
Remind the youth of the fleeting experiences. Embrace the time.
Friday, March 11, 2016
Telling the Truth
Let's be honest. (Don't you just love that phrase?) We hear folks say that often, 'Let's be honest.' It suggests to me that up until THAT stated declaration the conversation between two people has been laced with bull-butter dishonesty.
These sudden proclamations are nothing new. I recall when my children were very young, they would often say, "Let's pretend..." I understood at that moment their 'play' was about to take off into an imaginary venture. Remembering my own youth, my generation of friends would say, "Let's play like..." We had not benefited from early childhood educational programs, therefore the word 'pretend' was not part of our vocabulary...besides we were unsophisticated and poor.
Terminology is not the only difference between the imaginary games of my generation and my grandchildrens' generation. Whereas my friends chased one another as 'Cowboys & Indians,' we also 'acted' like our favorite sports hero running & playing our sandlot games. We'd sweat a lot and most of us were skinny. Kids today sit on chubbier-butts, manipulate 'controls' while their pretend games play out on a monitor-screen...with nearby munchies added to their comfort.
Me and my friends were healthier and happier...'Let's be honest.'
These sudden proclamations are nothing new. I recall when my children were very young, they would often say, "Let's pretend..." I understood at that moment their 'play' was about to take off into an imaginary venture. Remembering my own youth, my generation of friends would say, "Let's play like..." We had not benefited from early childhood educational programs, therefore the word 'pretend' was not part of our vocabulary...besides we were unsophisticated and poor.
Terminology is not the only difference between the imaginary games of my generation and my grandchildrens' generation. Whereas my friends chased one another as 'Cowboys & Indians,' we also 'acted' like our favorite sports hero running & playing our sandlot games. We'd sweat a lot and most of us were skinny. Kids today sit on chubbier-butts, manipulate 'controls' while their pretend games play out on a monitor-screen...with nearby munchies added to their comfort.
Me and my friends were healthier and happier...'Let's be honest.'
Thursday, March 10, 2016
Cannot be Denied
"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their creator with certain inalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness." Those are beautiful and flowery words found in the preamble to the Declaration of Independence. However, when those words butted up against American realities of those times, the words were gibberish-jabber poppycock. All men were NOT holders of said rights, protection or privileges.
In those times, women, slaves and non-property owners could NOT vote.
In our nation's early years, only white males with property ownership could vote. Therefore, we must imagine that the wealthy controlled laws and privileges. Overtime, women and people of color were given voting rights. Therefore, today the wealthy white guys attempt to control the nation's direction and power by making it difficult for minorities and the poor to vote. We note voting ID requirements along with manipulation of polling places, accessibility and times.
Just as our Founding Fathers talked out of both sides of the mouth, today's right-wing supporters speak with the same forked tongue on the matter of the inalienable right to vote.
In those times, women, slaves and non-property owners could NOT vote.
In our nation's early years, only white males with property ownership could vote. Therefore, we must imagine that the wealthy controlled laws and privileges. Overtime, women and people of color were given voting rights. Therefore, today the wealthy white guys attempt to control the nation's direction and power by making it difficult for minorities and the poor to vote. We note voting ID requirements along with manipulation of polling places, accessibility and times.
Just as our Founding Fathers talked out of both sides of the mouth, today's right-wing supporters speak with the same forked tongue on the matter of the inalienable right to vote.
Wednesday, March 9, 2016
Humility Leads to Dignity
Flamboyant boastfulness 'sells.' I recall as a youngster hearing the carnival barker loudly proclaiming the performers' skills and fetes. A passerby would pause to consider the ticket buy to watch the fat guy swallow six swords at once or the magician cut the lady in half.
Sports enthusiasts love to embrace the Babe Ruth 'point and call the shot' story. They likewise enjoy the braggadocio of a Mahammed Ali and the chair throwing antics of former Indiana basketball coach, Bob Knight.
Perhaps it's this over-the-top deviation from the behavioral norm that appeals to the Donald Trump followers. Then again just maybe humility is no longer vogue. Just maybe it is not enough to be victorious over our opponent but we MUST taunt and humiliate the defeated.
I recall growing in my father's home. I vividly remember two subliminal messages: (1) Dad loves mom more than he loves the kids and (2) don't show your ass or allow your mouth to overload it.
I was sixteen years old with a driver's license, girlfriend and a 'star' athlete reputation. I sassed mother at the dinner table making her cry. My father delivered a stinging backhand to my smart mouth. On that sport 'star' point, my father was always pointing out where I could do more for the team...he constantly told me that there were others before me and more would come after me.
Make no mistake, a successful person must have grit and confidence, however I always found it easier and more enjoyable admiring and rooting for the humble and appreciative...John Wooden, Stan Musial, Joe Louis, Jimmy Carter and a fella named Jesus Christ.
Sports enthusiasts love to embrace the Babe Ruth 'point and call the shot' story. They likewise enjoy the braggadocio of a Mahammed Ali and the chair throwing antics of former Indiana basketball coach, Bob Knight.
Perhaps it's this over-the-top deviation from the behavioral norm that appeals to the Donald Trump followers. Then again just maybe humility is no longer vogue. Just maybe it is not enough to be victorious over our opponent but we MUST taunt and humiliate the defeated.
I recall growing in my father's home. I vividly remember two subliminal messages: (1) Dad loves mom more than he loves the kids and (2) don't show your ass or allow your mouth to overload it.
I was sixteen years old with a driver's license, girlfriend and a 'star' athlete reputation. I sassed mother at the dinner table making her cry. My father delivered a stinging backhand to my smart mouth. On that sport 'star' point, my father was always pointing out where I could do more for the team...he constantly told me that there were others before me and more would come after me.
Make no mistake, a successful person must have grit and confidence, however I always found it easier and more enjoyable admiring and rooting for the humble and appreciative...John Wooden, Stan Musial, Joe Louis, Jimmy Carter and a fella named Jesus Christ.
Tuesday, March 8, 2016
Mammy's Way
My wife, Gerry attends a weekly Bible Study at Grace United Methodist Church (Decatur, Illinois). While in Miramar Beach, Florida for January and February, we both attended a weekly Bible Study at Grace Lutheran Church (Destin, Florida). While in Florida, my wife also hooked up with one of her Bible- buddy classmates from Decatur who was wintering in nearby Destin. They met weekly to complete the lessons emailed from Decatur. My son, Steve said that his mother attends twice the Bible studies than his dad thus concludes mom's twice the Christian and will likely have a front and back door to her heavenly home whereas, I will probably be climbing through windows.
I'm not big on those Bible Classes. I do read the Bible but I don't 'study scriptures.' That's a confession folks, not a brag. As a young boy, my maternal grandmother, Mammy Bennett was always quoting scriptures to me. One of the earliest Bible verses she preached was Ephesians 6:2. She told me it was the first commandment given with a promise from God..."Honor thy father and mother that you may live long upon the earth." I sure did that and I suppose reaching seventy-seven covers His promise. However, I found an even greater gift following that scripture. I had no regrets when I said my final goodbyes to my parents.
Mammy also preached other scriptures that I embraced along my journey.
Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." My wife and I were 'in Church' with our kids and today our grown children 'go to Church.'
Philippians 2:14 "Do all things without grumbling or questioning." I did not give much of an audience to our kids asking "Why?" Or asking, "Don't you trust me?"
Proverbs 13:24 "Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him." When they were young, I used my hand on few butts that needed discipline. Doing it early reduced the frequency needed.
I hear folks say it is more difficult raising kids today than yesteryear. Sorry, I don't buy that. Kids today would be a hellava lot better if mommie and daddy agreed to "Let your yes be yes and your no be no." Matthew 5:37."
I'm not big on those Bible Classes. I do read the Bible but I don't 'study scriptures.' That's a confession folks, not a brag. As a young boy, my maternal grandmother, Mammy Bennett was always quoting scriptures to me. One of the earliest Bible verses she preached was Ephesians 6:2. She told me it was the first commandment given with a promise from God..."Honor thy father and mother that you may live long upon the earth." I sure did that and I suppose reaching seventy-seven covers His promise. However, I found an even greater gift following that scripture. I had no regrets when I said my final goodbyes to my parents.
Mammy also preached other scriptures that I embraced along my journey.
Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." My wife and I were 'in Church' with our kids and today our grown children 'go to Church.'
Philippians 2:14 "Do all things without grumbling or questioning." I did not give much of an audience to our kids asking "Why?" Or asking, "Don't you trust me?"
Proverbs 13:24 "Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him." When they were young, I used my hand on few butts that needed discipline. Doing it early reduced the frequency needed.
I hear folks say it is more difficult raising kids today than yesteryear. Sorry, I don't buy that. Kids today would be a hellava lot better if mommie and daddy agreed to "Let your yes be yes and your no be no." Matthew 5:37."
Monday, March 7, 2016
'Hit the Road Jack!'
A few years ago, I believe 2009, the University of Illinois President resigned for his involvement in a scandal allowing students of the wealthy and powerful to circumvent the academic admission standards. Shameful to state the obvious.
On the athletic side, after allowing 'program-builder,' Bill Self to leave for KU, the Illini settled for Bruce Weber and then fire him with a tenure record of 210-102...go figure!
The Fighting Illini sports' leadership behavior becomes even more questionable. At least questionable from a perspective of moral fairness and even-handedness. A week before the opening of last football season, Illnois Athletic Director, Mike Thomas fired head coach Tim Beckmann and replaced him with assistant coach, Bill Cubit. Cubit, under much difficulty and stress finished the season with a 5-6 mark. He was rewarded with a two-year contract extension just three months ago only to be fired over the past weekend by new Athletic Director, Josh Whitman.
I believe it is insignificant of the new hire to justify this bizarre sequence of administrative decisions. Josh Whitman can announce Lovie Smith or Knute Rockne's great grandson as the new Illini football leader and it still fails to cover the 'stench' hanging over the Champaign-Urbana Campus. You just don't treat people that way...well, unless you're the Chicago Cubs.
There are many signs these days, which suggest America's 'core values' are trickling down much faster than Ronnie Reagan's economic growth-theory.
On the athletic side, after allowing 'program-builder,' Bill Self to leave for KU, the Illini settled for Bruce Weber and then fire him with a tenure record of 210-102...go figure!
The Fighting Illini sports' leadership behavior becomes even more questionable. At least questionable from a perspective of moral fairness and even-handedness. A week before the opening of last football season, Illnois Athletic Director, Mike Thomas fired head coach Tim Beckmann and replaced him with assistant coach, Bill Cubit. Cubit, under much difficulty and stress finished the season with a 5-6 mark. He was rewarded with a two-year contract extension just three months ago only to be fired over the past weekend by new Athletic Director, Josh Whitman.
I believe it is insignificant of the new hire to justify this bizarre sequence of administrative decisions. Josh Whitman can announce Lovie Smith or Knute Rockne's great grandson as the new Illini football leader and it still fails to cover the 'stench' hanging over the Champaign-Urbana Campus. You just don't treat people that way...well, unless you're the Chicago Cubs.
There are many signs these days, which suggest America's 'core values' are trickling down much faster than Ronnie Reagan's economic growth-theory.
Friday, March 4, 2016
Some Call it God's Waiting Room
We are back in Decatur, Illinois. We departed Miramar Beach, Florida Wednesday morning at 5:30AM and pulled into the 'soy city' at 7:45PM. That's correct this old fart drove straight through, which suggests that aging and stupidity run on dual rails.
This was our third winter in the Northwest Panhandle of the 'Sunshine State' or as some call it, God's waiting room. After a three-year experience, I am comfortable with the following summations...
(1). Driving an auto in Florida is dangerously problematic with 70 & 80 year old farts gawking while angry locals darting recklessly from one lane to another trying to get from here to there.
(2). Old people are crazy about their dogs and restaurant coupons.
(3). You'll never see more 'meal-splitting' in Florida restaurants than by the 'snowbird gang.'
(4). Most old timers who winter in the South are staunch Republicans. When seniors are sitting around the swimming pool talking politics, I must remind them periodically that I am a Democrat and that President they are lambasting is 'my President,' and I voted for him twice. I swear to you, the first time I said that a nearby lady was absolutely flabbergasted as she asked, "Are you really a DEMOCRAT?" This year she did not speak to me. My wife used to ask me not make such statements in public but over time, I've convinced her that it's OKAY to talk about politics and religion...that old saying "don't talk about politics and religion" is a myth. Besides, I like to shape the tone and topic-subject of future social encounters or not!
(5). Most sales clerks working in the resort towns at overpriced retail stores cannot afford to actually live in those communities. They commute from great distances.
(6). The 'gouging season' officially begins March 15, which coincides with the Nation's college spring breakers. Property that one can rent monthly @ $1,500.00 for a month's costs $3,500.00 for a week.
The great thing about Florida, aside from reading 'Letters to the Editor' in local newspapers is the availability of fresh seafood harvested right from the Gulf waters off Florida's coast. Today, while shopping a the Decatur's Sam's Club, I checked out the 'seafood' selection...how do you spell Honduras, Thailand, China, India, Ecuador and Vietnam. I'd talk to you about Southeast Asia 'plumbing' situation but until my wife approves it as an acceptable 'around-the-swimming-pool' topic, I'd best stifle myself.
This was our third winter in the Northwest Panhandle of the 'Sunshine State' or as some call it, God's waiting room. After a three-year experience, I am comfortable with the following summations...
(1). Driving an auto in Florida is dangerously problematic with 70 & 80 year old farts gawking while angry locals darting recklessly from one lane to another trying to get from here to there.
(2). Old people are crazy about their dogs and restaurant coupons.
(3). You'll never see more 'meal-splitting' in Florida restaurants than by the 'snowbird gang.'
(4). Most old timers who winter in the South are staunch Republicans. When seniors are sitting around the swimming pool talking politics, I must remind them periodically that I am a Democrat and that President they are lambasting is 'my President,' and I voted for him twice. I swear to you, the first time I said that a nearby lady was absolutely flabbergasted as she asked, "Are you really a DEMOCRAT?" This year she did not speak to me. My wife used to ask me not make such statements in public but over time, I've convinced her that it's OKAY to talk about politics and religion...that old saying "don't talk about politics and religion" is a myth. Besides, I like to shape the tone and topic-subject of future social encounters or not!
(5). Most sales clerks working in the resort towns at overpriced retail stores cannot afford to actually live in those communities. They commute from great distances.
(6). The 'gouging season' officially begins March 15, which coincides with the Nation's college spring breakers. Property that one can rent monthly @ $1,500.00 for a month's costs $3,500.00 for a week.
The great thing about Florida, aside from reading 'Letters to the Editor' in local newspapers is the availability of fresh seafood harvested right from the Gulf waters off Florida's coast. Today, while shopping a the Decatur's Sam's Club, I checked out the 'seafood' selection...how do you spell Honduras, Thailand, China, India, Ecuador and Vietnam. I'd talk to you about Southeast Asia 'plumbing' situation but until my wife approves it as an acceptable 'around-the-swimming-pool' topic, I'd best stifle myself.
Thursday, March 3, 2016
It's a Good Bet
Of course, Las Vegas has established betting odds on who will be elected President this November (2016). What I cannot find are odds on America going into war under the next President. Therefore, I'll venture a guess: Sanders less than 10% chance; Clinton perhaps moves the needle to 40% . On the Republican side, I'd venture a Kasich war at 30% and ALL other Republican candidates tip the war scale at 95%.
The fact remains when candidates campaign on the promise of 'bombing until the sand glows' and 'bomb the shit out of them,' it's a good bet we will be at war under that commander. Those folks have never figured it out that all the John Wayne and Clint Eastwood movies were pretend.
Speaking of 'figuring' things out, I noticed in the Nortwest Florida News that Okaloosa Island is hosting the Annual Ronald Reagan Fund Raising Dinner at $65.00 per person, I do hope those folks know that Ronnie is dead.
The fact remains when candidates campaign on the promise of 'bombing until the sand glows' and 'bomb the shit out of them,' it's a good bet we will be at war under that commander. Those folks have never figured it out that all the John Wayne and Clint Eastwood movies were pretend.
Speaking of 'figuring' things out, I noticed in the Nortwest Florida News that Okaloosa Island is hosting the Annual Ronald Reagan Fund Raising Dinner at $65.00 per person, I do hope those folks know that Ronnie is dead.
Wednesday, March 2, 2016
They Must be Stopped
The following is an excerpt from Chicago Tribune writer, Steve Chapman, which was posted March 1, 2016. The entire article is found @ chicagotribune.com/steve_chapman
"For some reason, his (Trump) glorification of hatred and violence appeals to many evangelical Christians, whose savior preached the golden rule. Saintly attributes, in his (Trump) eyes, are for suckers. Trump tells his supporters that their most vicious impulses should not be surpressed."
I have implied his message on several previous blogs. Donald Trump is not nearly as frienghtening as the masses who follow him; many professing a 'close walk with Jesus.' These hate mongers can high-jack the Republican Party but let's hope they cannot desecrate the words & teachings of Christ.
"For some reason, his (Trump) glorification of hatred and violence appeals to many evangelical Christians, whose savior preached the golden rule. Saintly attributes, in his (Trump) eyes, are for suckers. Trump tells his supporters that their most vicious impulses should not be surpressed."
I have implied his message on several previous blogs. Donald Trump is not nearly as frienghtening as the masses who follow him; many professing a 'close walk with Jesus.' These hate mongers can high-jack the Republican Party but let's hope they cannot desecrate the words & teachings of Christ.
Tuesday, March 1, 2016
A Cancer Grows
From the beginning of Donald Trump's Presidential campaign, he played to the frustration and underlying prejudicial anger of many American people; it is the essence of the Trump mode of operation. This kind of boastful-blustering language is appealing South of the Mason Dixon Line, especially with 'white Bubba's who get their jollies over songs about grits, guns and whiskey.
Trump's first bigoted nerve to touch was anti-Mexican inferences followed by a vulgar comment about female Fox News commentator, Megan Kelly and a ugly remark about Carly Fiorina's facial looks. Trump then made animated fun about a physically handicapped reporter. Trump had no problem painting Muslims with a broad ethnic brush tied to his suggestion to ban Muslims traveling in out out of the United States.
Trump's most recent insensitive race remarks occurred when he said he would not denounce the KKK and its former leader, David Duke until he could investigate 'who they are' and what they are saying.
Trump's ugly-mean spirited rhetoric continues to feed a large segment of our society who obviously share his attitudes/beliefs while hiding behind a veil of born-again evangelicals.
A sickness as this transcends the legitimate political discourse. The very nature of Donald Trump's rhetoric is an attack on the Judea-Christian foundation of our Nation. His spewing of Fascist-like language should be unacceptable and widely denounced by all Americans regardless of political persuasion.
Trump's first bigoted nerve to touch was anti-Mexican inferences followed by a vulgar comment about female Fox News commentator, Megan Kelly and a ugly remark about Carly Fiorina's facial looks. Trump then made animated fun about a physically handicapped reporter. Trump had no problem painting Muslims with a broad ethnic brush tied to his suggestion to ban Muslims traveling in out out of the United States.
Trump's most recent insensitive race remarks occurred when he said he would not denounce the KKK and its former leader, David Duke until he could investigate 'who they are' and what they are saying.
Trump's ugly-mean spirited rhetoric continues to feed a large segment of our society who obviously share his attitudes/beliefs while hiding behind a veil of born-again evangelicals.
A sickness as this transcends the legitimate political discourse. The very nature of Donald Trump's rhetoric is an attack on the Judea-Christian foundation of our Nation. His spewing of Fascist-like language should be unacceptable and widely denounced by all Americans regardless of political persuasion.
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